Sexually confident males (let’s call them – men that have had relatively serious relationships – thus having a lot of good sex and are at least over the age of 23) are very attracted and turned on by sexual confidence in a woman. To put it simply, they wish and desire a sexual confident and sexually mature women that will either sometimes initiate sex or take control during sex. Why? Well, because these men understand the pleasures of sex and know how to have sex – they want their sexual partners to be on the same line thus having some GREAT sex together.
Not so sexually confident males (let’s call them – men that have not had the chance to experience sex that often or have never had an interest in understanding sex apart from busting their nut) are turned on by not so sexually confident women (even virgins). Why? Quite simply because in their heads, being with a person that has never had sex means that she will automatically view him as the “great one” in bed. Although this may seem funny, it’s sad and pathetic but it’s a complex many guys have and this is just one of the ways they deal with it.
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On the other hand, for sexually confident and mature males, virgins can be a major turn off.
6. The Non-Existent Shyness
Acting shy in the initial stages only to later on reveal your "wild side" can be a massive turn on for many guys. You don't have to rearrange your whole life for this to happen but it's good to be aware of it.
7. Kinky Surprises
Kinky surprises are incredibly easy to pull off but work wonders on a guy’s brain. Simply ask him to come over for dinner (or whatever reason) and when he comes, open the door in that new sexy lingerie that he never saw and awww what a night that will be.
This is so powerful that the reminder image from that night can keep him going for a long time.
8. Two Women Together
Many women are puzzled by this, they say: “Men hate watching two men together, but they love two women making out. Why is that?” – It’s very simple, men love women – they love watching women individually, dressed or naked so it’s only natural that they would be 2x more turned on by two women. Women are the beautiful sex, not men. We can’t watch 2 men making out because it’s disgusting. Think about it yourself, if you had to choose, wouldn’t you watch two women making out instead of two guys making out? Exactly!
Contrary to popular belief this is also why men want a threesome. You might be thinking yes, men want threesome so that they can have sex with the other woman, that’s true as well but the main reason we want it, is to see the woman we love, be with another woman whilst having a FANTASTIC sexual experience together, as a couple.
9. Lingerie and High Heels
Individually, each of these items is a major turn on to any guy. But when you add them together, they become a lethal combination. Quality lingerie gets all your best angles into the spot light and it’s incredibly arousing. Top that off with high heels that lift your butt and make your chest pop out…you’re guy won’t last past the 3 minute mark.
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10. Tight Clothes