Men aren’t really sophisticated when it comes to getting turned on; often enough just looking at a great body is enough to get us going. You see, unlike women, we respond incredibly well to visual stimuli and that’s what you, as a woman, need to take advantage of, if you want to get a guy turned on.
For example, when you’re reading a romance novel where the protagonists are having sex, you will, most of the time (and correct me if I’m wrong), try to or actually feel the feelings the woman protagonist is feeling. If a man was to read a romance novel, he would instead, visually imagine the sexual act – this can be a very tiring experience and that’s just one of the reasons men prefer porn to romance novels.
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Anyway, if he is in the early stages of the relationship, just looking at you (and imagining having sex with you) is more than enough to get him going. On the other hand, if you’ve been in a relationship for some time it will take a bit more effort to get him hot and ready.
This article is here to show you, in no particular order, the 14 major things about women that turn guys on, regardless of the relationship stage.
As women are considered the beautiful sex, there’s really no point in dressing up but, because modern society has us wearing clothes, whenever we see that little extra bit of skin we get turned on. Flimsy skirts, visible thighs and all those other luxuries will always get a guy’s attention.
As men, we always make an effort to properly touch a woman, we view it in a way, as our responsibility but when a woman touches back, or even when she touches first it can be overwhelming at times. The best places are around the neck, ear, arms and back of the head whilst kissing… touch a guy in any of these locations and you’ll surely get him going.
This works particularly well with guys that you’re not yet in a relationship with. Being close to a woman is incredibly arousing, this can happen on a bus, in the elevator, at the bar and basically everywhere else where two people are somewhat forced to be in close proximity. Why? Because it becomes incredibly evident how much of a woman you are (your hair, your smell…) – basically, we get to see you up close and many guys relish at the chance.
Again, more suitable for the initial stages but can be applied later on in the relationship as well. Flirting is one of the best ways to turn a guy on and also to make him feel awkward. You don’t have to start the flirting yourself, just give any guy a reason to flirt with you and then reciprocate – smile at him, act interested in him, laugh at his jokes, touch him, get closer to him.
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5. Sexual Confidence and Maturity
I’ve read a lot about this recently and there seems to be a lot of views regarding it so, let’s just get this straight, once and for all.