Ah yes, this is probably a man’s favorite dream. Unlike women, men are stimulated by what they see; romance and stories do nothing for him. So, there’s nothing like a good old strip tease to get him in the proper mood. Make sure you do it slow, sensual and take your clothes off bit by bit.
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If you don’t know how to strip tease, do a search online, there are plenty of videos and tutorials. If you’re the shy type and think that this isn’t for you, try having a glass of wine or two to get you in the mood. It doesn’t matter how you view this, if you plan on pleasing your man this is definitely worth trying.
3. Making out
Passionately kissing always gets a guy going. I don’t know what it is but for most guys, when they feel some tongue action things just start going crazy. In a way, our brains directly associate making out (tongue kissing) with sex, they go hand and hand.
It’s really easy to get a guy going this way. Just start off with gentle little kisses, moving on to the full make out sessions while your hands explore his manly body. Also, don’t forget to use your tongue on the ears and neck. Think of it this way, if you like it, he likes it – so get moving!
4. Take charge
As previously mentioned, one of the biggest questions guys have about this issue is “Why isn’t their partner starting sex?” You see, men get tired of being men sometimes and that’s why they want you to take charge. Simply get on top of him and show him that you’re the boss. Rip his clothes off and tell him what to do, he’ll love you for it.
Again, this is another thing most women overlook. If you like to be massaged by your guy, you’d think he wouldn’t want the same treatment? Of course he does. Give him a full blown sensual massage and he’ll want you more than he ever has. Also, if you’ve got time, make sure you use oils, candles, some soft music, basically the whole lot.
Role-playing is always great if you want to spice things up in the bedroom. The best part about it is that you can do it without any kinky costumes or anything like that. Just imagine a story and then play a role in that story, it’s that simple. To make it even easier you can put on a wig and pretend you’re his favorite celebrity or some princess in a far far away land.
7. Mirror in the bedroom
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This is not so much a foreplay move but if you can get hold of a mirror and place it in the bedroom, somewhere where the guy can see himself whilst in the bed…it’s going to do wonders. I don’t know what sort of narcissistic side this appeals to but we as men love watching ourselves in the mirror, especially when we have our special someone naked, next to us. Keep reading...