This is probably one of the most obvious ones but nevertheless important. If you’ve got a guy sending you flowers at work, buying you gifts, taking you out all the time – without a doubt he’s into you. If he’s still doing this even after you’ve had sex, he’s probably in love with you.
Again, men are not good at displaying emotions and often think that presents and treating a woman is a good way to do it. Well, regardless of your opinion on this issue; make sure you cherish these early stages of the relationship because at least then this is how guys display their affection.
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9. Pays Attention To Your Needs
This is another one of those things that are completely involuntary when a man is into a woman. It becomes even more evident when you’re in a group of HIS friends. If he gives you special attention, more attention that to his friends then you’ve got him because any guy that gives you more attention than he gives to his friends is obviously caring much more about you.
10. Watch His Friends
We, as humans, talk about what’s on our minds so, naturally, when you fall in love with a person – that person is always on your mind – and as a direct result all you talk about is that person.
If you meet up with his friends and they say stuff like “We’ve heard so much about you” “Oh, It’s great to finally meet you” and even when you start telling a story about you guys they say “Ah, we know…your guy already told us” it’s quite evident that recently, all he’s been talking about is you.
Also, if you’re out with his friends and they pay attention to what you say, do and how you feel, you can know for sure that you’re guy already told them that he likes you and wants them to be on their best behavior to impress you.
This is very important to a guy, and I do it as well. Here’s why: men do this because if a guys has his friends to be nice to you then you will feel good around his friends (meaning you can hang out more together) but this also has a double effect because if YOU are having a nice time you will also be pleasant and as a direct result, his friends will also like YOU. It’s funny because they were nice to you in the first place and now they like YOU because of that.
So, to simplify, if a guy goes to all this trouble for you, he’s probably in love with you.
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