10 Ways To Tell If A Guy is Really Into You
By Alex Matlock. Posted on .
Have you recently met a guy and have been pondering whether or not he’s into you?
Telling if a guy is actually into you is much easier than most women think. Often time’s women let their own personal feelings get in the way of their thinking and later realize that they have been wasting time with a guy that doesn’t actually like them.
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So, before you take things further, this article is here to show you 10 ways in which you can tell if a guy is really into you or not. The first 5 will show you if he is attracted to you while the next 5 go so far as proving if he is in love with you or not.
Even if he’s playing hard to get, these are things that he can’t always control and will help your reveal the truth about his feelings.
1. Watch His Eyes
It’s very easy to tell if a guy is into you just by watching his eyes. Unlike other body parts that we can control, our eyes are different. If someone (male or female) is excited or has strong feelings about something, their pupils dilate. So, if you are talking to a guy and you see that his pupils are dilated it’s quite evident that he likes you and is even turned on by you.
Also, when talking, you can tell by the way and looks and you and the way he pays attention to you. If a guy makes eye contact often it tells you a lot. We often reveal far more than we desire through our eyes so be sure to look for this next time when you see him.
2. He Feels Happier Around You
This may seem like obvious advice but it’s very often overlooked. The simple fact that a guy can’t hide his smile around you or the fact that he is often overexcited tells you all you need to know. Sometimes you’ll even see that the guy blushes easier just because you’re there. If he’s fond of you or likes you this is the sort of stuff that will reveal his feelings, you can even put him to them to the test.
3. He Does What You Like To Do
This is another prime example of what guys do to be in the presences of someone they have strong feelings for. Think about the activities you love and if you see him doing them with you it’s evident that he wants to spend more time with you. Example a guy watches “The Notebook” with you…
It doesn’t matter what his feelings are towards your interests, he will do them just so he can be in your presence more often.
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4. Spending His Weekends With You
Because we all have busy lives, we view weekends as that part of the week when we can relax and do what we ENJOY THE MOST. So, if a guy is just your friend, he’ll leave the weekends for something else, something that he enjoys the most. But, when a guy wants to spend whole weekends with you, it’s very evident that you are one of the things that he enjoys the most.
