Viagra for Women's Brains

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Viagra for Women's Brains
Wish there were a drug to increase desire in females, some sort of Viagra for Women?

Wish there were a drug to increase desire in females, some sort of Viagra for Women?
 This maybe a surprise to some, but a tablet form of Viagra for women does not exist at the moment, the primary female sex organ does not sit between your legs, but rather on top of your shoulders! Of course we are referring to your brain.

As moms, our brains are on usually on overdrive! We’ve got a mental checklist running of what’s for dinner… who’s on carpool… when to sign up Johnny for the itty bitty baby Olympic training class…did I wash Laura’s favorite 1D shirt…etc., etc.

Unfortunately, all that mental clutter doesn’t magically melt away at night when we climb into the sheets next to our partner. It would be great if we had a tablet that we could take that was a Viagra for women. When our minds are focused on running the house or our careers, thoughts of sex get repressed. (probably the result of eons of evolution that rewarded nurturing behavior!). Too bad there isn’t a Viagra for women to help us turn off our mental chatter.

It should be no surprise then, that without sexual thoughts, sex drive decreases and then we wonder why we even share a bed (especially if he snores!). Luckily this very normal phenomenon has a fundamentally easy fix – simply declutter the mind and voila!, you are back to your 23 yr old self. Well, not exactly.

Without something that grabs our attention, decluttering the mind is about as easy as “just eat less and exercise more”! Luckily this is not something you have to do on your own. Erotic books have provided a mental escape from the daily stresses of life for women for decades. The Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy is the most recent validation of the popularity of erotic books, and it almost single handedly spawned a mini sexual renaissance! However, Fifty Shades did have a dark side and not everyone is into reading about BDSM (bondage, dominance, sadism, masochism). Furthermore, busy women don’t have the time to read through 20 or 50 pages to get to the next ‘good part’.

So while books are good – videos can be better. With that in mind, we are creating the After Nine Tonight series of short videos to help you declutter your mind. We want to turn off your childcare thoughts and replace them with thoughts of intimacy. Our videos are first and foremost entertaining; they center on characters moms can relate to and care about; they are based on scientific research about what is arousing to women, and they feature very tastefully shot romantic encounters between husbands and wives. The episodes have been described as a cross between Sex & the City and a Lifetime movie. And most important – they are short. We know you want sleep. Can you invest 15 minutes to get in the mood – and to rekindle the intimacy with your partner? Go on, and get your head in the game! It is worth it!

Make the decision to reignite your sex life today. Be one of the first to get your hands on these videos – purchase your pre-order copy today at afterninetonight.com.

This article was originally published at afterninetonight.com. Reprinted with permission.
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Dr. Suzanne Olds, After Nine Tonight

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Suzanne Olds, PhD is the founder and executive producer at After Nine Tonight and she is dedicated to helping busy parents rekindle their passion.
 

Location: Glenview, IL
Credentials: PhD
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