Do You Need a Relationship Contract? Put Your Love in Writing!


Do You Need a Relationship Contract? Put Your Love in Writing!
It may not sound sexy but a love contract may be the perfect way to get clear on expectations.

You are not legislating your love. You are legislating the ways that you will behave as a twosome. A relationship exists in the space between you both. There is nothing romantic about "winging it." You deserve a loving partner whose perfectly weird ways match yours. The relationship contract will help you to create a guide for the areas where you may not match.


Happy contracting!


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Abiola Abrams

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When trying to figure out who to love, always start with yourself.

Location: New York, NY
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