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4 Sexual Fantasies Gone Horribly Awry
Trying to spice things up with your partner? Unsure about suggesting role play or fantasy? Well, as thrilling as fantasies can be, the potential for trouble also exists. What might sound enticing ...10 Sex Tips Every Woman Should Know After 10 Years of Marriage
Congratulations on 10 years together! As you’ve probably already noticed, as time passes, things change in a marriage or love relationship. You change and your partner changes too. This isn’t always a bad ...Is Your Secretive Partner Making You Jealous?
Rarely does jealousy manifest out of thin air. Usually there are very real things going on in your relationship or life that trigger jealousy. These might be more intense because of something that happened in your past or maybe ...Don't Take ANYTHING Personally
Don't take ANYTHING at all personally. This can be difficult advice to swallow. Sure, when a complete stranger cuts you off in traffic while making rude hand gestures at you, it's pretty easy not to take it on. Most of us can chock a moment like that up to another person's bad day ...10 Ways Jealousy Affects Your Relationship
Everybody knows about jealousy, right? Maybe you've read the claim that a "little" jealousy is good for your love relationship or marriage, or that when your partner is jealous, it means that he or she really cares. If you ...MY RECENT COMMENTS
Of course, a resistance to being transparent does not mean you are prone to cheat. Being transparent also does not necessarily mean that you no longer have privacy or that you have to open up your journals to your partner.
After infidelity, the couple can talk about what transparency can mean and what they are each willing to do. The offer to be transparent made genuinely by the one who cheated can be a powerful way to demonstrate trustability. Something like transparency is just *one* way that a couple can rebuild trust after an affair. It's not the only way and it cannot be forced or pushed.
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Susie and Otto Collins
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Articles by Susie and Otto Collins
Susie and Otto Collins
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Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Women, Infidelity / Affair Recovery