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5 Secret, Sexy, Techno-Savvy Ways Couples Can Flirt
Remember in the days of high school when you'd write a love note for the cute guy or girl in your class? You'd draw a heart or just say, "Hi ... " then fold that piece of paper and pass it up the aisle to the person you were crushing on. How things have changed! Slipping a sweet note into ...What Magazines Won't Tell You About Dating
If you've browsed the magazine racks at your local bookstore or surfed the web, you know that there's a LOT of dating advice out there. There are how to’s for using body language to get and impress a date, lists of words ...“Is This Jealousy or Is My Partner Having an Emotional Affair?”
“You're just being jealous,” Randy's husband dismissed her criticism of his friendship with a woman on his co-ed soccer league. She brought up her concerns that he is spending an awful lot of time with this other woman-- at the field practicing, ...The Couch Potato Trick that Makes Love Last
Do you feel like you’re constantly on the go taking care of everyone? Does this seem to also apply to your love relationship or marriage? When there is tension or distance between you ...Can A Womanizer Be Reformed?
Is your guy wonderful in every way...except for the fact that he gets around a lot? Maybe he’s someone you’ve had a huge crush on for a long time or maybe the two of you have been sleeping together or even dating for awhile and you’ve been hoping and waiting for him to Read MoreMY RECENT COMMENTS
Of course, a resistance to being transparent does not mean you are prone to cheat. Being transparent also does not necessarily mean that you no longer have privacy or that you have to open up your journals to your partner.
After infidelity, the couple can talk about what transparency can mean and what they are each willing to do. The offer to be transparent made genuinely by the one who cheated can be a powerful way to demonstrate trustability. Something like transparency is just *one* way that a couple can rebuild trust after an affair. It's not the only way and it cannot be forced or pushed.
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Susie and Otto Collins
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Communication Problems
Couples/Marital Issues
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Time in Practice:
10 years +
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Dating Coach
Divorce Coach
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Articles by Susie and Otto Collins
Susie and Otto Collins
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Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Women, Infidelity / Affair Recovery