Susie And Otto Collins (Other)
afraid of making a commitment to your relationship? You've been seeing each for a long time now and it's pretty clear to you that there's more going on than just ...
boyfriend, Jeff. He just doesn't get it. In order to get the kind of romance and special treatment she wants, Karen has to drop blatant hints, and even then, he only occasionally understands that she'd like him to ...
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Of course, a resistance to being transparent does not mean you are prone to cheat. Being transparent also does not necessarily mean that you no longer have privacy or that you have to open up your journals to your partner. After infidelity, the couple can talk about what transparency can mean and what they are each willing to do. The offer to be transparent made genuinely by the one who cheated can be a powerful way to demonstrate trustability. Something like transparency is just *one* way that a couple can rebuild trust after an affair. It's not the only way and it cannot be forced or pushed.