Monogamy, Serial Monogamy or Something Else?

What does saying "I do" mean to you? For some it means a commitment to love the person they are with forever. For others it means a commitment to family and sharing. And for many others it also jokingly perhaps, and then maybe not so jokingly in the end maybe, means a death sentence. Have you ...

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An Open Mind Will Open Doors

Are you having trouble maintaining your relationships? Are you forever seeking something that seems to be more like a fairy tale but never seems to happen for you in real life? Do you find yourself in the same situation over and over again, in your relationships and wonder why the love, life and relationship you ...

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Get Up. Get Dressed And Show Up For Life. Everyday.

My friend once told me, "You gotta get up and show up for life." This was the same friend who would show up at my door, completely showered and dressed by 10AM on a Saturday morning when we were teenagers. The same one who believes "working from home," is a recipe for failure. "You gotta ...

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On Sweating the Small Stuff

Sometimes it feels like we have come to such a place based on the idea that we need to be politically correct, or polite that we’ve somehow lost the voice to politely, and assertively ask for what we want, and need. In relationships, there is an underlying message we have often received, about not ...

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Porn Is Happening..

Porn is happening. Porn is everywhere. Porn can be light and for fun, or porn can be a multi billion dollar profit for some and detrimentally expensive for others. So, I'd like to start off this by saying that pornography in and of itself is not a ‘bad’ thing. We have preconceived notions about ...

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