Over the 45 years that I have been counseling individuals and couples, I have very often worked with people who are considering leaving their marriage. Often they say things like:
• I no longer feel close or intimate with my spouse. I love him/her, but I'm no longer in Read More
When my ex-husband and I met 50 years ago, neither of us were on a spiritual path. About eight years into the marriage, after our third child was born, I started searching. I knew something was missing from my life—some kind of inner peace and Read More
All of us, as we were growing up, learned a myriad of ways to try to have control
over getting love, avoiding pain and feeling safe. One of the ways we might have learned is to lie.
We all had many ...
"I'm lonely and I want to be in a relationship, but relationships are too hard. I feel like I don't want to work that hard," Karen told me in a phone session.
I replied, "Are you ready to fully accept the Read More
Adele wrote in asking the following question:
"If I don't want sex
with my partner, is that a form of control
from me? Therefore, should I have sex ...