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Dr. Margaret Paul - Author, Counselor/Therapist, Marriage Educator, Relationship Coach, Sex Educator, Speaker/Presenter - Los Angeles, CA
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Dr. Margaret Paul (PhD)

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Phone 310-459-1700

Fax: 310-459-1727

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Boundaries: From Fear or Love?

We know that one very important aspect of taking loving care of ourselves is to set loving boundaries for ourselves. Whether or not a boundary is loving depends upon which aspect of you is setting the Read More

Are Kindness and Tenderness Signs of Weakness?

"Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair but manifestations of strength and resolution." ~Kahlil Gibran Over the 42 years that I have been counseling individuals and Read More

The One Dependable Source Of Love

Seth and Cindy consulted with me because they had been married only a year and were having problems. Seth was often angry at Cindy, and Cindy felt shut down to Seth. "Seth," I asked him, ...

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Fight or Flight? 2 Ways To Handle Relationship Conflicts

The fight or flight response is a natural response to danger. Our bodies are created to fight or flee when danger is upon us, such as being attacked by a mountain lion. When faced with this kind of danger, the stress hormones pour into our body, causing some blood to leave our brains and organs and go into our ...

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What's The Difference Between Approval & Appreciation?

At one of my three-day advanced mini-intensive in Santa Barbara we had a wonderful discussion about the difference between approval and appreciation. I had never thought about the difference until someone asked about it. As so often ...

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Dr. Margaret Paul

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Anxiety Issues

Couples/Marital Issues

Depression

Credentials:

PhD

Time in Practice:

25 years +

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Counselor/Therapist

Marriage Educator

Relationship Coach

Sex Educator

Speaker/Presenter

I offer my services:

Telephone

Via Skype

I am fluent in:

English

Articles by Dr. Margaret Paul
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Boundaries: From Fear or Love?

Boundaries are important, but when they come from fear, they are controlling rather than loving.

Alone

Are Kindness and Tenderness Signs of Weakness?

Discover what weakness really is and how to acquire the strength to be kind and gentle.

Bad Date

The One Dependable Source Of Love

Have you made your partner your dependable source of love — your Higher Power? This is a problem!

Butting Heads

Fight or Flight? 2 Ways To Handle Relationship Conflicts

Don't run away every time an argument starts.

Staycation

What's The Difference Between Approval & Appreciation?

Discover the vast difference between approval and appreciation in relationship communication.

Check Out My New Book
Inner Bonding: Becoming a Loving Adult to Your Inner Child
Inner bonding is the process of connecting our ...
By Margaret Paul
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Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You? (Second Edition)
Arguing with your spouse about the checkbook? ...
By Jordan Paul Ph.D., Margaret Paul Ph.D.
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Healing Your Aloneness: Finding Love and Wholeness Through Your Inner Child
Erika Chopich and Margaret Paul show how ...
By Margaret Paul, Erika J. Chopich
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Healing Your Aloneness Workbook
This book teaches a profound six-step process ...
By Erika J. Chopich, Margaret Paul
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Dr. Margaret Paul

All Specialties

Addiction, Anger Management, Anxiety Issues, Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Depression, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Domestic Abuse, Eating & Food Issues, Empowering Women, Family Support, Health/Wellness, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, LGBT Issues (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender), Life Management, Life Transitions, Parenting, Personality Disorders, Post Traumatic Stress / Trauma, Postpartum Depression, Sexuality, Spiritual, Stepfamilies, Stress Management, Wellness