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Dr. Margaret Paul - Author, Counselor/Therapist, Marriage Educator, Relationship Coach, Sex Educator, Speaker/Presenter - Los Angeles, CA
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Dr. Margaret Paul (PhD)

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Phone 310-459-1700

Fax: 310-459-1727

Articles

Relationships: Control Or Kindness

What do you see when you look at your partner? When Carmella looks at Rudy, she sees his insecurity and withdrawal, which she does not find attractive. She sees his neediness when he pouts over not having Read More

Are you Takers or Caretakers

When we are coming from our ego wounded self, we tend to be either a taker or a caretaker in relationships. While we can go back and ...

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Speaking Your Truth to Your Partner

Mark sought my help because he was thinking of leaving his wife, Linda. He had not been feeling in love with Linda for a long time, but they had two children and he really didn't want to break up the family. "Mark," I ...

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Boundaries: From Fear or Love?

We know that one very important aspect of taking loving care of ourselves is to set loving boundaries for ourselves. Whether or not a boundary is loving depends upon which aspect of you is setting the Read More

Are Kindness and Tenderness Signs of Weakness?

"Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair but manifestations of strength and resolution." ~Kahlil Gibran Over the 42 years that I have been counseling individuals and Read More

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Dr. Margaret Paul

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Anxiety Issues

Couples/Marital Issues

Depression

Credentials:

PhD

Time in Practice:

25 years +

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Counselor/Therapist

Marriage Educator

Relationship Coach

Sex Educator

Speaker/Presenter

I offer my services:

Telephone

Via Skype

I am fluent in:

English

Articles by Dr. Margaret Paul
Feed Me

Relationships: Control Or Kindness

If your primary focus is to control your partner, then you may be having relationship problems.

Feed Me

Are you Takers or Caretakers

Most people fall on one side or the other of the codependent system. Which side are you on?

Happy Couple

Speaking Your Truth to Your Partner

Many withhold truths to spare their partner pain, but you can gain the strength speak your truth.

Oh My

Boundaries: From Fear or Love?

Boundaries are important, but when they come from fear, they are controlling rather than loving.

Alone

Are Kindness and Tenderness Signs of Weakness?

Discover what weakness really is and how to acquire the strength to be kind and gentle.

Check Out My New Book
Inner Bonding: Becoming a Loving Adult to Your Inner Child
Inner bonding is the process of connecting our ...
By Margaret Paul
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Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You? (Second Edition)
Arguing with your spouse about the checkbook? ...
By Jordan Paul Ph.D., Margaret Paul Ph.D.
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Healing Your Aloneness: Finding Love and Wholeness Through Your Inner Child
Erika Chopich and Margaret Paul show how ...
By Margaret Paul, Erika J. Chopich
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Healing Your Aloneness Workbook
This book teaches a profound six-step process ...
By Erika J. Chopich, Margaret Paul
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Dr. Margaret Paul

All Specialties

Addiction, Anger Management, Anxiety Issues, Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Depression, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Domestic Abuse, Eating & Food Issues, Empowering Women, Family Support, Health/Wellness, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, LGBT Issues (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender), Life Management, Life Transitions, Parenting, Personality Disorders, Post Traumatic Stress / Trauma, Postpartum Depression, Sexuality, Spiritual, Stepfamilies, Stress Management, Wellness