When you want to make love, why do you want to? The answer may seem obvious, but there are many reasons for wanting to have sex
other than feeling sexual. /node/79082
Some of the reasons we might want to have sex:
Feeling insecure ...
When Zack and Tiffany started counseling with me
, they were on the verge of divorce after 16 years of marriage. Neither really wanted to end the marriage, yet both were miserable. Both of them believed that their misery was ...
Communication between partners often gets confusing, and there is a very good reason for this. Most of the time, the words we use have far less impact than the energy behind the words. Therefore, what you say is often not what the other person hears.
The energy behind a communication is determined by our ...
Being alone is a challenge for many people. This challenge may loom especially large during the holidays if you are single or newly divorced and without family around you. Holidays are a time to share love, and many people end up feeling depressed when they do not have people around with whom to share love. If ...
Marilee, a client of mine, was commitment phobic.
"I'd love to be in a loving relationship," she told me in one of our counseling sessions, "but I'm not willing to give up my freedom. I have a great life. I love my work and my friends. I love to travel and take workshops and classes. ...