In the many years I've been counseling, thousands of couples have come to me wondering if they should end their relationship. Most of these people were in love at one point but are now miserable with each other, or one partner is miserable with the other. Generally, they don't know what the real problem ...
Vanessa, 30 years old, is struggling with whether or not to end her six-year marriage. The answer is not at all clear to her.
Vanessa and Jon have a "good" marriage. They are kind and caring with each other. They enjoy many of the same things. So why is Vanessa in such turmoil over whether to stay ...
"It’s time for me to move on. I’ve learned so much – I just know that next time it will be better."
"Our new relationship has a great chance, because we’ve both been married before and have learned a lot. We know that this time around we will do it so much ...
Are you thinking of getting a divorce because:
Your spouse is physically or verbally abusive with you or with your children?
Your spouse is an alcoholic or drug addict and has no intention of dealing with the addiction?
Your spouse has a gambling addiction and is causing financial ...
We all learned many way of avoiding our pain when we were growing up, because we could not manage feeling it when we were little. Now, as adults, most people continue to protect in the ways they learned, not knowing that they are now capable of managing their pain and moving back into their joy.
There are ...