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Dr. Margaret Paul - Author, Counselor/Therapist, Marriage Educator, Relationship Coach, Sex Educator, Speaker/Presenter - Los Angeles, CA
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Dr. Margaret Paul (PhD)

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Phone 310-459-1700

Fax: 310-459-1727

Articles

Safety: Controlling Others or Loving Yourself?

I was having a phone session with Randy. "When I am around most people, I am generally fairly relaxed. But the moment I'm around my mother or Gineen (his wife of 12 years), I get anxious and often angry. ...

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Where Did The Passion Go?

Patti asked the following question in one of my webinars on sexuality: I am now going out with the man of my dreams. I have wanted to be in relationship with him for so long. We used to be friends and I would be so excited to see him. ...

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Are You Nice or Are You Loving?

Do you know the difference between being nice and being loving? Our society has long trained children to be "nice." Being nice might mean: • Telling white lies so as not to hurt other's ...

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Feelings as Control, Feelings as Responsibility

One of our members emailed me with the following request: "Margaret, would you consider writing some dialogue on people sharing feelings, and the differences between pulling and ...

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Who Is The Real Victim In Your Relationship Conflicts?

"He is always blaming me for the bad things that happen in his life, and then he tells me it's my controlling him that is making him so angry. He yells at me and puts me down rather than deal with his ...

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Dr. Margaret Paul

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Anxiety Issues

Couples/Marital Issues

Depression

Credentials:

PhD

Time in Practice:

25 years +

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Counselor/Therapist

Marriage Educator

Relationship Coach

Sex Educator

Speaker/Presenter

I offer my services:

Telephone

Via Skype

I am fluent in:

English

Articles by Dr. Margaret Paul
Butting Heads

Safety: Controlling Others or Loving Yourself?

Do you believe that safety comes from having control over getting another's love?

Smooch

Where Did The Passion Go?

Do you love your partner but find that the intensity & intimacy have become muted? Discover why.

Happy Couple

Are You Nice or Are You Loving?

Do you know the difference between being nice and being loving?

Staycation

Feelings as Control, Feelings as Responsibility

Discover the difference between sharing feelings as a form of control or taking responsibility.

Check Out My New Book
Inner Bonding: Becoming a Loving Adult to Your Inner Child
Inner bonding is the process of connecting our ...
By Margaret Paul
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Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You? (Second Edition)
Arguing with your spouse about the checkbook? ...
By Jordan Paul Ph.D., Margaret Paul Ph.D.
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Healing Your Aloneness: Finding Love and Wholeness Through Your Inner Child
Erika Chopich and Margaret Paul show how ...
By Margaret Paul, Erika J. Chopich
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Healing Your Aloneness Workbook
This book teaches a profound six-step process ...
By Erika J. Chopich, Margaret Paul
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Dr. Margaret Paul

All Specialties

Addiction, Anger Management, Anxiety Issues, Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Depression, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Domestic Abuse, Eating & Food Issues, Empowering Women, Family Support, Health/Wellness, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, LGBT Issues (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender), Life Management, Life Transitions, Parenting, Personality Disorders, Post Traumatic Stress / Trauma, Postpartum Depression, Sexuality, Spiritual, Stepfamilies, Stress Management, Wellness