Peggy had been married to James for 14 years when she first consulted with me for help with her relationship
and her anxiety. "I can't stand being in this marriage anymore. We have two wonderful children and I don't want to break up this family, ...
When I tell my clients that we attract each other at our common level of woundedness, they often ask "What exactly does this mean?"
Our level of woundedness is the level to which we abandon ourselves
. While how we ...
"He will be so angry if I tell him that."
"I'm afraid of losing her if I'm honest with her."
How often have you said to yourself, "I can't say that because he/she will get angry, shut down, get hurt, or leave"?
How do you feel when you are not open with your ...
Research indicates that, unless there is violence in the home, children are generally better off being raised by an intact family. Whenever clients who have children call to work with me
on their marriage, I always encourage ...
I was a very anxious child. When I was five years old, my mother took me to a child psychiatrist. After we each spoke with him and we were ready to leave, he turned to me and said, "Tell your mother not to yell at you." I clearly remember thinking, "I'm only five years old and she doesn't ...