The Boundary Keeper

I recently had a conversation with a friend of mine, Kelsy, who was beside herself because her recent ex-boyfriend was not respecting her boundaries. She was laying them down very clearly, but he kept crossing the line. Sometimes he was stepping on the line, sometimes he was only one foot over the line. However, ...

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Arnold, Maria, and a Ripple in the Force

I’ve spent the better part of a week thinking about what to say regarding Arnold and Maria. I’ve been asked by just about every woman I know what I think about it. People have asked me about my thoughts partially because I spend a great number of my waking hours thinking and talking about ...

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Interesting is Very Attractive

When I was fifteen I had a break up I thought would kill me. Sadness descended in our home with such fierceness that my father still calls it the “semester of the never ending dark night.” Finally one day my mother braved her way into my room, where I was listening to my Rick Springfield cassette ...

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How to Affair-Proof a Marriage

I watched way too much daytime TV recently. Dr. Phil did a whole show featuring “the other woman”. Oprah interviewed Shania Twain who was talking about her new book where she details her painful divorce following her husbands affair. Typically I would avoid that kind of programming, but I deluded ...

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Confidence is the Best Cosmetic

I know a lot of women will not agree with me. I also am aware it might be wishful thinking, but I don’t think so. I have very candid conversations with a lot of men. So, I might be going out on a limb here, but I’m just going to say it. I believe the vast majority of men would rather be with a ...

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