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Julie Orlov (LCSW,MSW,Other)
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The Illusion of Control
Have you ever woken up feeling the blues? You know, that feeling of being unsettled, as if you, your life, or your relationships just aren’t matching up to your expectations. You feel like something is askew but you don’t know how to fix things and make them right. You wish you could figure out how ...5 Reasons To Celebrate Your Single Status
Our culture puts way too much emphasis on couplehood. There is too much pressure for people to feel obligated to be in a romantic, intimate relationship that will last a lifetime. Personal success, worth, and lovability is associated with romantic relationships. It's as if something is wrong with you or your ...Nice Guys Don't Have to Finish Last
Nice has become the new four letter word for many women. They associate “nice” men with having qualities such as boring, passive, and unromantic. I’m not sure how this happened. My guess is that it is part related to how the media portrays “strong” versus “weak” men and ...If I get what I want, will I want what I get?
I heard this quote in a children’s animated movie some years back and it stuck with me. I share this question with coaching clients on a regular basis. Why? Because we spend a lot of time chasing what we “want”. Let’s say for example you meet that seemingly perfect guy or girl. ...Buyer Beware! They will tell you what you want to hear.
I was reading an email the other morning promising me yet another perfect and easy solution to my problem. I don’t recall what the problem was but that’s rather irrelevant. I’m sure I have problems that would love a simple and revolutionary solution. There are no short supplies of problems and ...MY RECENT COMMENTS
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