I Believe

"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love!"

-Tom Robbins, Author


"God Helps Those Who Help Themselves"

-Ben Franklin

About Joe Amoia

I didn't set out to be an expert on dating & relationships. I went to school because I wanted to be a doctor. Ever since I was a lil boy I wanted to help people. But after practicing one-on-one for several years a part of me knew that I should be doing more with my life and the best way to do that was to serve and help more people.

Hi, My name is Joe Amoia & I am the founder & creator of Smarter Dating For Women and the Quantum Leap Ultimate Relationship Program, both of which feature the 5 Step Relationship Success Formula (TM), the same formula I used to find and attract my wife in less than 3 months

My knowledge and skills of dating and human behavior comes from my 17 years of being a doctor and working with my practice members. The more I shared my story of how I went form dating disaster to dating master the more I was encouraged to write a book & share what I have learned with others.

I created Smarter Dating to share the mindset, skills & strategies a woman needs to find, attract and recognize the right man without any of the frustration, games and drama that most single women are used to. I am able to share a man's perspective and give insights into what it is that a guy is really looking for (yes, he wants more than sex) and what it takes to create a happy and fulfilling long term committed relationship

I have been happily married to my wife and best friend Natalie for 9 years and we have 3 awesome sons.

Joe Amoia Success Stories

Pamela Finds True Love After Being Single for Years

Women seeking a relationship

I am SOOOOO happy it brings me to tears. Everything about this FEELS RIGHT. It is such an amazing experience and so comfortable. I am CRAZY in love!!!more

You didn't have anything to do with Joe coming back into my life, you had ALL to do with the clarity I gained in my essential needs and from learning that, I was able to get my head out of the clouds (albeit, only briefly!) long enough to evaluate whether Joe met all of those non-negotiable needs of mine. After realizing that he did, there was NO holding back! Full throttle ahead!!!!

Knowing the non-negotiables and realizing that the person you are involved with meets those core needs truly removes any fears of moving forward and there is no fear of being your true self with that person. There is no underlying, nagging uncertainty about it. Once I realized that, it was such a relief to know I am with the right person for me. Hooray!!!!!


From Dating WHINERS to Dating WINNERS

Single women

I have learned so much about Dating & Myself (not to mention the poor chocies I have made). I am so grateful for your system. You have shown me how to change my thinking patterns & as a result put msyelf in postion to win. You were right they taught us everyhting in school but how to create a great and successful relationship. I never thought it was possible for me, but now I know it is..more

I just  had my 3rd date with a guy I met online & I am amazed at how easy & stress free dating now is. Now that I am 100% clear on my needs I don't have to worry about making a square peg fit into a round hole. The guy is either right for me or he isn't. And if he isn't, I no longer have to take it personal. I just say ...NEXT! Thank you for giving me the mindset & tools I need to win the dating game. I never would ahve beelived that dating could be this easy...and fun!!


“ I now have the ability to make better choices in my dating life. I’m more attuned to recognizing the signs of a bad relationship. I have a better understanding of what it is I really need in a healthy, stable relationship, as opposed to what I “think” I want.”


“I realize that it is possible to meet a normal guy who can be right for me. I am now better prepared to know when a guy is right for me and when he isn’t. As a result, I no longer waste time on guys and relationships that aren’t right for me.. The best part of all is that I realize that dating can be fun. Utilizing Dr. Joe’s system has made dating easy & simple. Dr. Joe’s expertise and ability to break down dating and relationships into steps which are easy to understand and implement makes me very optimistic about my future and finding Mr. Right”