Shela Dean - Author, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Richmond, VA
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Shela Dean (JD)


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Phone 804.332.5323

Fax: sheladean1


Help! My Husband Says He Loves Me... As A Friend

Help! My Husband Says He Loves Me... As A Friend

What's worse than learning that your husband had an affair? Hearing that he doesn't love you anymore. In this video, YourTango Expert Shela Dean offers advice for what to do if ...

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Shela Dean

Quick Stats



Time in Practice:

6-10 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Relationship Coach


YourTango Expert Partner

I offer my services:

At my office


By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

Via Skype

Via a webcam

Licence information:

Expiration 12/31/14
Number 83245

Articles by Shela Dean
mourning 1

What I Learned About Communication From a Cold Shower

The illusion that communication has taken place can lead to big trouble!

sad girl 2

3 Life Lessons for the Shriver Schwarzenegger Children

Maria and Arnold can make lemonade out of this very sour lemon by using it as a teaching moment.

couple next step

How to Seduce Your Partner Every Day

Dating while married means emotionally seducing your partner every day with emotional foreplay.

couple fight 3

Date Night Won't Keep the Spark Alive

Date Night. It's not enough to overcome boredom and laziness or to keep the spark alive.

man frustrated 4

Respond to the Emotion, Not the Behavior

Mirroring your lover's bad behavior ends up in a stupid argument. Instead, respond to the behavior.

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All Specialties

Couples/Marital Issues