A coach helps you become aware, see the things you can't see. They are actually trained to help you step outside of the car you've been driving your whole life. You get to look all around, see what's there and choose where you want to go and what experience you want to have. All of this in a loving, reflective, non-judgmental space.
This is how transformation occurs. I know this because I have had this experience in
my own life and I know you can too. The life and relationship of your dreams is possible. Consider, if you think that's a pie-in-the-sky, airy-fairy ideal, you may need to get supported in stepping outside of the car you are driving. Even it means cruising around on a scooter.
Your life is worth it and so is your relationship.