John  Gray - Author, Counselor/Therapist, Dating Coach, Divorce Coach, Divorce Recovery Coach, Family Coach, Health Coach, Life Coach, Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage Educator, Marriage/Couples Counselor, Mentor, Naturopathic Doctor, Organization, Personal Development Coach, Psychologist, Relationship Coach, Sex Coach, Sex Educator, Sex Therapist, Speaker/Presenter, Spiritual Coach, Wellness Coach, YourTango Expert Partner - Mill Valley, CA
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John Gray (PhD)


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Phone 415-381-5743

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Is Marriage Better For Men Or Women?

Is Marriage Better For Men Or Women?

When it comes to marriage, the running joke is that all women want to get married and all men dream of being bachelors forever. While there may be some truth that men enjoy the freedom of being single, the fact remains that there are a variety of benefits to being married. Or rather, happily ...

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Are All Relationships Destined To Get Boring?

Are All Relationships Destined To Get Boring?

Is it possible to have a long-term love affair where the passion is as intense as when it first began? Yes, but many couples don't have the skills necessary to sustain this type of passion in their relationships. It was easy in the beginining because it's new and an excess of dopamine flooded the brain. ...

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Why Can't We Have It All (And Should We Just Stop Trying)?

Why Can't We Have It All (And Should We Just Stop Trying)?

Our personal worth is often defined by career success, but women these days are expected to climb the corporate ladder while maintaining fabulous personal relationships and family life. It can be completely exhausting. Relationship experts Debi ...

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Adultery: What's The Key To Forgiveness?

Adultery: What's The Key To Forgiveness?

If your spouse has had an affair, you may feel that you can never forgive him. However, holding onto a grudge can fill you with toxic emotions that are harmful to your recovery and healing. ...

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What Makes Monogamous Couples Tick?

What Makes Monogamous Couples Tick?

Are we biologically equipped to spend our lives with one person? Is monogamy even realistic?  Our changing culture and values (not to mention longer lifespans!) are making a Read More

John Gray

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Communication Problems

Couples/Marital Issues




Time in Practice:

25 years +

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:


Dating Coach

Divorce Coach

Divorce Recovery Coach

Family Coach

Health Coach

Life Coach

Marriage and Family Therapist

Marriage Educator

Marriage/Couples Counselor


Naturopathic Doctor


Personal Development Coach


Relationship Coach

Sex Coach

Sex Educator

Sex Therapist


Spiritual Coach

Wellness Coach

YourTango Expert Partner

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Other, please inquire

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Licence information:

Expiration 12/31/30
Number 1-877-564-6472

Articles by John Gray
Mars Venus Q&A: Brother's Keeper

Mars Venus Q&A: Brother's Keeper

Dear John, My brother, who is 28, is dating a woman that some in our family do not like, ...

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Why Mars & Venus Collide - Improving Relationships By Understanding How Men And Women Cope Differently With Stress
Why Mars and Venus Collide: Improving Relationships by Understanding How Men and Women Cope Differently with Stress
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Cal 95: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus/Year-In-A-Box
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Men are from Mars Women are from Venus Book of Days
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus: Book of Days: 365 Inspirations to Enrich Your Relationships
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How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have: A Practical and Spiritual Guide to Personal Success
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Mars And Venus In The Bedroom -
Mars and Venus in the Bedroom: A Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion
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Children Are from Heaven: Positive Parenting Skills for Raising Cooperative, Confident, and Compassionate Children
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Mars and Venus Starting over
Mars and Venus Starting Over: A Practical Guide for Finding Love Again After a Painful Breakup, Divorce, or the Loss of a Loved
Mars and Venus on a Date
Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship [MARS &
Practical advice on navigating the singles ...
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Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship
Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus Low Price CD
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Practical Miracles for Mars and Venus: Nine Principles for Lasting Love, Increasing Success, and Vibrant Health in the

John Gray

All Specialties

ADD/ADHD, Anger Management, Anxiety Issues, Career, Chronic Pain/Disability or Illness, Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Depression, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Domestic Abuse, Family Support, Grief, Loss, & Bereavement, Health/Wellness, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, Life Management, Life Transitions, Matchmaking, Parenting, Personality Disorders, Post Traumatic Stress / Trauma, Sexuality, Stepfamilies, Stress Management, Wellness