John  Gray - Author, Counselor/Therapist, Dating Coach, Divorce Coach, Divorce Recovery Coach, Family Coach, Health Coach, Life Coach, Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage Educator, Marriage/Couples Counselor, Mentor, Naturopathic Doctor, Organization, Personal Development Coach, Psychologist, Relationship Coach, Sex Coach, Sex Educator, Sex Therapist, Speaker/Presenter, Spiritual Coach, Wellness Coach, YourTango Expert Partner - Mill Valley, CA
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John Gray (PhD)


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Am I Really Ready For A Relationship?

Am I Really Ready For A Relationship?

Even though your palms are sweating and it's getting harder to speak, you've finally mustered up the courage to confront the cute guy that you've been crushing on for months. It's almost as if time stops for those first few seconds after you push your nerves aside and just tell him how you feel; ...

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It Really Is You: How You Sabotage Your Relationship

It Really Is You: How You Sabotage Your Relationship

Do you have crazy trust issues? When you're out on a date with your partner, does he often get whiplash from your mood swings? If you find that you are constantly being visited by the green eyed monster, it's more than possible that you are playing a hand in wrecking your own ...

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Why Do My Husband And I Keep Having The Same Fight?

Why Do My Husband And I Keep Having The Same Fight?

The more you try to speak, the more you can't seem to stop arguing. Is it possible that you and your lover will never be able to stop clashing heads or see eye to eye? How can you effectively communicate with your partner without going to bed angry? Relationship expert Read More

Can Sex Really Be Meaningless?

Can Sex Really Be Meaningless?

Whether you're single, dating or married, sex likely plays a huge role in your life and relationship. We know sex to be an intimate activity but the way it is percieved differs for each person. For instance, you either feel connected through sex or use sex to feel connected. But is it possible to have sex ...

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I'm Middle-Aged & Single. Am I Doomed?

I'm Middle-Aged & Single. Am I Doomed?

You're 45 and still single. What gives? Do you have a fear of rejection? Intimacy? Committment? Maybe you're a workaholic. Perhaps you're all of the above. While living your reality may suggest you're doomed to find love, the truth is that you're not.  Relationship Experts Read More

John Gray

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Communication Problems

Couples/Marital Issues




Time in Practice:

25 years +

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:


Dating Coach

Divorce Coach

Divorce Recovery Coach

Family Coach

Health Coach

Life Coach

Marriage and Family Therapist

Marriage Educator

Marriage/Couples Counselor


Naturopathic Doctor


Personal Development Coach


Relationship Coach

Sex Coach

Sex Educator

Sex Therapist


Spiritual Coach

Wellness Coach

YourTango Expert Partner

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Other, please inquire

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Licence information:

Expiration 12/31/30
Number 1-877-564-6472

Articles by John Gray

A Modern Day Look At Mars And Venus- Part 2

The conclusion to updating the classic concepts for today’s singles and couples.


A Modern Day Look At Mars And Venus

Updating the classic concepts for today’s singles and couples (part 1).

dreamy woman

Is Your Concept Of 'Soul Mate' Keeping You Single?

Is there really just one match for everyone? What exactly IS a soul mate?

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Man Speak Vs. Woman Speak: 10 Common Misunderstandings

How to avoid common arguments by better understanding how men and women communicate.

3 Types Of Sex For Long-Term Love

Three types of sex to keep passion alive in a long-term, monogamous sex life.

Check Out My New Book
Why Mars & Venus Collide - Improving Relationships By Understanding How Men And Women Cope Differently With Stress
By John Gray
Why Mars and Venus Collide: Improving Relationships by Understanding How Men and Women Cope Differently with Stress
Once upon a time, Martians and Venusians ...
By John Gray
Cal 95: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus/Year-In-A-Box
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Men are from Mars Women are from Venus Book of Days
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Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus: Book of Days: 365 Inspirations to Enrich Your Relationships
There's no doubt about it; the relationship ...
By John Gray
How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have: A Practical and Spiritual Guide to Personal Success
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By John Gray
Mars And Venus In The Bedroom -
Mars and Venus in the Bedroom: A Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion
The author of the phenomenal # 1 New York ...
By John Gray
Children Are from Heaven: Positive Parenting Skills for Raising Cooperative, Confident, and Compassionate Children
This brilliantly original and practical system ...
By John Gray
Mars and Venus Starting over
Mars and Venus Starting Over: A Practical Guide for Finding Love Again After a Painful Breakup, Divorce, or the Loss of a Loved
Is it possible to find love again after a ...
By John Gray
Mars and Venus on a Date
By Ph.D. John Gray
Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship [MARS &
Practical advice on navigating the singles ...
By John Gray
Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship
Will I Ever Find My Soul Mate?Whether you are ...
By John Gray
Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus Low Price CD
The most well-know, long-lived, and ...
By John [Ph.D] Gray
Practical Miracles for Mars and Venus: Nine Principles for Lasting Love, Increasing Success, and Vibrant Health in the
Practical advice from the author of the No. 1 ...
By John Gray

John Gray

All Specialties

ADD/ADHD, Anger Management, Anxiety Issues, Career, Chronic Pain/Disability or Illness, Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Depression, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Domestic Abuse, Family Support, Grief, Loss, & Bereavement, Health/Wellness, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, Life Management, Life Transitions, Matchmaking, Parenting, Personality Disorders, Post Traumatic Stress / Trauma, Sexuality, Stepfamilies, Stress Management, Wellness