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NO ROOM FOR BLAME

NO ROOM FOR BLAME

I so appreciate getting specific feedback on my blogs for a number of reasons.  The most obvious is that it lets me know that people are actually reading them!  Since I write to share what I’m passionate about in the hopes of inspiring and educating others, it’s always nice to know that someone has taken time out of their busy schedule to read what I’ve written. 

My Guru Told Me To: Why It Shifted Everything

My Guru Told Me To: Why It Shifted Everything

Last weekend I got the most amazing voicemail from my guru. And when I say guru, I mean guru, the kind that meditate for hours on end, have given up all attachments, and are on the path towards enlightenment. He is 90 years old, looks like he is 60, and has been in my life since I was a small child. As a child, I would hear him speak and feel moved to live my life with ease, gratitude, and happiness. He first came to America from India in 1978, the year I was born, by way of Harvard.

7 Ways To Distract Yourself From The Post Divorce Blues

7 Ways To Distract Yourself From The Post Divorce Blues

7 WAYS TO DISTRACT YOURSELF FROM THE POST-DIVORCE BLUES There are times when you need to distract yourself. Times when a glass, or two, of wine just doesn’t cut it and all your friends are out for the evening or just plain tired of hearing about your divorce. These are the times when you need to become creative in order to circumvent the possibility of doing something stupid like driving off a cliff or signing up, yet again, for Match.com. Neither of these scenarios will have the desired effect, which is to get you out of your temporary funk.

7 Ways To Distract Yourself From The Post Divorce Blues

7 Ways To Distract Yourself From The Post Divorce Blues

7 WAYS TO DISTRACT YOURSELF FROM THE POST-DIVORCE BLUES There are times when you need to distract yourself. Times when a glass, or two, of wine just doesn’t cut it and all your friends are out for the evening or just plain tired of hearing about your divorce. These are the times when you need to become creative in order to circumvent the possibility of doing something stupid like driving off a cliff or signing up, yet again, for Match.com. Neither of these scenarios will have the desired effect, which is to get you out of your temporary funk.

My Parents Got Divorced; Is My Marriage Doomed? [EXPERT]
Are the odds against you?

My Parents Got Divorced; Is My Marriage Doomed?

Children of divorce often experience expectations of failure, fear of loss or abandonment and fear of conflict throughout their lives. These anxieties are reflected in their romantic relationships by poor partner or behavior choices, giving up too quickly when problems arise or avoidance of any perceived level of commitment.

Friends With Benefits.

Friends With Benefits.

Some’s intuition is better than others. But, when you are dealing with love and relationships it is always best to go with your gut intuition. I know many women and men who had an intuition who they were with, weren't right for them and then look back and wish they wouldn't have wasted their time on that relationship. 

heart-shaped plate with brocolli
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Why I Probably Shouldn't Date Another Carnivore

On my first date with Alan, he suggested we order octopus. I laughed and said, "You'd be on your own with that!" And throughout the relationship I had to hear quips and comments about my healthy, green, almost-vegan food preferences.

R.I.P: Chivalry May Be Officially Dead

R.I.P: Chivalry May Be Officially Dead

For some reason I think men have forgotten their manners or they just weren’t taught them, but opening a door for a woman should be mandatory. It isn’t that hard to open a door when you see a women with groceries or even just her hand bag! Are we teaching the men of this generation right?

The Good, The Bad & The Ugly Of Dating Multiple People

The Good, The Bad & The Ugly Of Dating Multiple People

Dating multiple people at once might seem trashy to some but soon after my dive into online dating I found myself juggling men. I didn’t intend on becoming a player but it just sort of happened! I went out on multiple coffee dates; followed by a several dinner dates, and the next thing I knew I was the gangster of love! There was a point where I was brazenly dating 3 men simultaneously.