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A New Year A New You

A New Year A New You

New Years Resolutions – How often do we as individuals make these so-called ‘New Years Resolutions' and actually commit to them before the end of the month of January? Do you fit the description of such an individual? In some sort of way, we all fit that description. What are your resolutions for 2013?

When To Punish & When To Reward

When To Punish & When To Reward

What is the hardest thing to consistently do well? Most of us who have had children will quickly answer with: “Being a good parent.” Parenting falls into the Toughest Job You’ll Ever Love category. But let’s be honest. Most of us don’t really love parenting. Sure, we love our kids. We had no idea we could love something so much until we became a parent. But being a great parent? That’s hard work.

"Meet Your Man 2013 Challenge" Day 2

"Meet Your Man 2013 Challenge" Day 2

Aloha Dignity Daters, and welcome to day two of the "Meet Your Man 2013 Challenge: 3 Steps to Tell the Difference Between a Player and the Guy Who is Looking For Love!" If you're still with us it means you are ready for the next step in the "Super Me" Meet Your Man Challenge! You should applaud yourself for being here, and for being brave and bold in the New Year. If you continue to follow these three simple steps, you will be on your way to a new and improved you, easily able to attract (and recognize) the quality man who is truly looking for love.

Typical Stereotypes Of Gay Athletes In The Locker Room
What's being said about gay athletes?

Typical Stereotypes Of Gay Athletes In The Locker Room

Once the cheers have gone silent, the stadiums and arenas are left to the cleaning crews and the uniforms go to the laundry, one thing remains the same ... we're all human and we should all be given the freedom to be who we are.

Smiling Latina woman wearing winter parka
Don't be blue!

Single? 4 Ways To Beat The Winter Blues

For those of us who find solitude energizing, winter is heaven's cousin: the perfect excuse to stay inside with ten great books, a lot of paper and a lot of pens; coffee's optional. For others, winter means misery. Especially for singles, the cold months can be particularly lonely and frustrating.

Finding Love: 12 Tips for Men

Finding Love: 12 Tips for Men

I recently wrote a column for women about tips for finding love—you wouldn’t believe the amount of men who wrote in asking What about us?  We want to find love too!  Here you go Gentlemen—this is for YOU! Finding Love: 12 Tips for MEN…  

A New Twist On The 80/20 Rule For Relationships

A New Twist On The 80/20 Rule For Relationships

For anyone new to the "80/20 rule for relationships," it's the theory that says, in a fairly healthy relationship, you only get 80 percent of what you want. Maybe your partner isn't a triathlete or great at sharing his feelings, but it's OK, because the 80 percent you do get is really good. The other part of the equation says that it’s the endless search for that missing 20 percent you'd hoped for in your mate that leads people to cheat.

7 Steps To Financial Health In Your Marriage

7 Steps To Financial Health In Your Marriage

Balancing the family budget requires teamwork. It requires common goals. People in love support each other through thick and thin – through good and bad financial times. People in love don’t blame, castigate, or chastise each other when making financial decisions. They work together to make ends meet and to prepare for tomorrow.