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Rough Hands Are Bad For Men's Sex & Orgasm

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Eric Amaranth's blog on what he's doing to combat the never mentioned issue of penis desensitization due to solo sex with rough hands from weightlifting. This kind of subtle effect over time will degrade men's enjoyment of vaginal or anal intercourse.

Mind and Mother Nature in Open Relationships

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Eric Amaranth's blog on being aware of Mother Nature's natural pair-bonding, baby-making, and sexual attraction triggers and buttons when in an open relationship so that you will enjoy those feelings but not have them pull focus away from your primary partner.

Married Cougar flirting with co-worker

Married Cougar flirting with co-worker

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Hi Lucia I’m 20 years old and in a situation where a co-worker who is married with kids is being the biggest flirt and teasing me every chance she gets. She’s older than me and says she’s not happily married. She hasn’t made a move on me yet. What should I do? Jay Hi Jay, I know it’s flattering and tempting to have an older woman flirting with you when you’re so young but you have to keep in mind that she’s also a married woman. That doesn’t mean she’s ready to make a move on you, otherwise she probably would have done it already. It may just be enough for her to get your attention during work hours before she goes back to her unhappy marriage. What should you do? Put yourself in her husband’s shoes. Would you want your wife messing around with a co-worker? Probably not. If you’re interested in older women, find yourself one who is available.

Is He Really Into You? 3 Surefire Ways to Know For Sure

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It breaks my heart how many women struggle in the early stages of dating a new man. By early stage, I mean you don’t know where you stand or how he feels. In my years of coaching women more often than not, they start moving things along toward a relationship before they know how he feels about her. They make up all kinds of things in their head to try to explain his lack of interest. So here are three ways you’ll know if he’s into you so you can save yourself a whole lot of grief: