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The Multi-dimensional You

The Multi-dimensional You

A lot of people nowadays are tuning into the fact that human beings are multi-dimensional. First we had multi-tasking; now we're into multi-dimensional.... : ^ ) Of course it's true, we are multi-dimensional. And I reckon we always have been. As you read this, you are inhabiting 4 dimensions at the very minimum: 3 spatial dimensions and the dimension of Time. And it's almost guaranteed that you are simultaneously carrying on other lifetimes in other worlds ... of which your everyday Earthly consciousness has no awareness.

How To Enhance Your Sex Life Using Your Imagination [EXPERT]
The imagination is a powerful thing.

How To Enhance Your Sex Life Using Your Imagination

Imagine you are a chef, and this article is a recipe for enhancing your sex life. This recipe contains a variety of mind-body ingredients that will add additional excitement and fun into your sex life. The goal of this process is to help you create an integrated body-mind state in which you feel safe and secure enough to explore and enjoy your own sexuality. Season to taste. In other words, make it about what really lights your fire!

ANOTHER WONDERFUL PROFILE

ANOTHER WONDERFUL PROFILE

I wrote this profile for a client about a year ago.  What’s interesting is that I really loved it but she didn’t use it.  I don’t know for certain why, but I think it described her to a tee and it might have felt too revealing for her at the time. When we spoke tonight, she told me that she was back on Match.com and asked if I still had the profile.  This time she loved it and said that she’s ready to put it up.

Are You a Princess?

Are You a Princess?

If you’re going to be a successful dater (which means you have fun and meet good men), an essential tool is the ability to empathize with the men you meet. Empathy is not feeling sorry for someone. It’s being able to put yourself in their shoes and understand their experience. I believe that the only way women can truly do that with men is to hear their stories firsthand. In my years of coaching I have gathered thoughts, feelings and stories from men in their early 30s up to their 70s, and clear patterns have emerged.

Fantasies: Should You Tell Your Partner Yours?

Fantasies: Should You Tell Your Partner Yours?

Alex can't understand why her husband is so upset. Last night, after sharing passionate kisses and just as they were about to climb into bed together, she whispered a recurring fantasy she's had ever since she saw the movie “Magic Mike.” Alex thought the movie was entertaining and sexy too. The movie focuses on a group of male strippers played by well-built, muscular actors, including Channing Tatum.

Men Want To Feel Sexy Too!

Men Want To Feel Sexy Too!

The popular summer movie Magic Mike, featuring male erotic dancers, has provided a refreshing image of men as objects of women’s sexual desire. Some of the appeal of the storyline is that is in using the idea of men as sexual objects as a punchline, something so out of the ordinary that it is funny. Gender flip flops are often used for humor, drawing on our own limited expectations for gender and self expression. And, at their best, encouraging us to think out of the box.

Your 27 Obstacles to Looking and Feeling Your Very Best

Your 27 Obstacles to Looking and Feeling Your Very Best

  In a survey performed by BodyVision, 100 people were asked ‘What is the biggest frustration you are experiencing right now about incorporating healthy habits into the everyday?’ The survey was to try to find the top 3 obstacles that get in the way of feeling and looking one’s very best.

Couples: Navigating Menopause

Couples: Navigating Menopause

Menopause opens the door to freedom from contraception but is also a time of annoyances such as vaginal dryness, dryer skin, weight gain, acne, and hair loss. You may have mood swings, fatigue, hot flashes, reduced libido, or brain-freeze. Most women do not experience all these symptoms, but having a few of them can feel like a few too many.

10 Ways to Determine if You Are Marriage Material!

10 Ways to Determine if You Are Marriage Material!

Why do some people seem to find a marriage partner again and again (and for the second or third time) and others never seem to be able to find one marriage partner? Let me tell you it’s not about having movie star looks or being model thin. There seems to be some similar characteristics of people who do seem to be able to connect to a romantic marriage partner and tie the knot. Below I have distilled it down to 10. Rate each one from zero to ten and see how fully you exhibit these characteristics: