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3 Ways Better Communication Makes You Happier

3 Ways Better Communication Makes You Happier

“Hey Jon, what’s happening? Yeah I’m alright, I know you’re good friends with my sister Gwyneth but can I tell you something? She is really bugging me! Every time she calls, all she does is talk about herself. And most of the time it’s negative. She carries on about how her boyfriend’s a jerk and her landlord keeps harassing her about the rent and how she can’t figure out why she doesn’t have any friends. Blah blah blah. I just get tired of listening you know.”   Ever listen to a rant like this? 

Why's It So Hard To Make Decisions About Dating??

Why's It So Hard To Make Decisions About Dating??

To do or not to do, that is always the question. Ahh, ambivalence. So I used to mix up this word with the word indifference. The latter means something like, “I don’t care.” The former means the opposite of that. Sort of. It means I feel strongly in at least 2 different ways about the same thing at the same time. Like whoa! I asked Merriam, he said “simultaneous and contradictory attitudes or feelings (as attraction and repulsion) toward an object, person, or action.” 

Do quality men event exist?

Do quality men event exist?

For Valentine’s Day, Hemal was out of town. He travels off to Toronto every week for work. He flew in last Friday, the day after V-day, and he had bought tickets to see the Broadway musical, Wicked. It was off the hook! I loved the musical. All I had to say is “we aren’t doing anything romantic” and boom! He is booking tickets! Yes, I find a musical romantic. However, it wasn’t always like this…  

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The Best Way To Repel Men

Do you know what the worst possible thing you could do when you meet a new guy is? As a dating coach for women over 40, I'm going to tell you so you never have to worry about making this self-sabotaging mistake again.

Love IS a drug

Love IS a drug

A while ago I watched an acquaintance of mine almost swallowed whole by a woman. Well – not literally, but metaphorically. It reminded me of that series ‘V’ where the aliens disguised themselves as humans but in reality were reptilian underneath and could open their mouth up so wiiiiiide that they could swallow … well, you get the picture.

The Mistress Rarely Wins

The Mistress Rarely Wins

Do you find that you seem to attract guys who always have girlfriends or wives? In other words, are you always the mistress? If so, it could be that, inadvertently, you are sending out signals that are only picked up by those who are committed to others. You don't realize what your actions and body language are saying.