After a lifetime of working on myself, I have made a profound discovery. I have become overly self-sufficient. I trust and believe in myself, but there is something bigger, better and more delicious available and sometimes, my need to be overly independent can compromise that. I am suggesting that there is more to life than trusting ourselves.
I’m in the business of love. But even though it’s my profession, it also becomes personal. My emotions get tangled in the cords that are my clients’ heartstrings. As an advisor along their heart’s journey, I feel along with them: When they’re in love, I radiate; when their hearts break, mine chips.
You can save your sanity and long-term health by balancing your life so that you can enjoy it and be there for the ones you love.
Studies of work patterns show that Americans work considerably more than our European counterparts. Work stresses that are brought home can cause relationship problems. But, can going on a vacation really strengthen your relationship? The answer is yes. Here are five reasons.
A mother struggling to get out of her marriage, she has children and no place to go. She does not fit into any socio-economic status because she is a middle class woman coming from a middle class home, with an abusive man. She is caught in the middle, she has never told anyone over the years of her struggles, because she has the “American Dream” or does she.
Situation & Lessons No.1 SELF SUPPRESSION Anna does whatever she is asked to do even when she doesn’t want to do it. Feeling mistreated, she grumbles, complains and bursts out in anger every so often because of her accumulated resentment. Although she feels suppressed, she finds it impossible to say “No.”. She is afraid people will not love her anymore, that they will reject her if she refuses to do what they request of her.
1. It’s not their fault. Teens are sensitive souls at a very vulnerable time of their lives. What you say now will make an impression. Let them know, despite how good or bad they were, that this break up is not in any way their fault. 2. That you love them.
Nora loved her husband of 30 years and considered herself happily married. And yet she wished the sex was more frequent and passionate. She had tried a few tricks to spice things up over the years. There was the lingerie phase and after that the sex toy phase. She even tried to develop a taste for porn so she and her husband could watch it together. For awhile, things would improve and she was sure she had found the solution. But a few weeks or months later, things would be back to the same boring routine. What could she do to rebirth the romance in her marriage?
I wish I had known how spectacular females are, and then honored myself as one among them. Males love the company of females. The most important thing in a relationship is that HE really gets YOU and vice versa. Really getting someone requires only that each person pay close attention and listen deeply. Finding someone who really understands you, is like finding a gem in the ocean.
Here are the best ways my clients and friends meet serious, marriage-minded people for dating and eventual, long-term relationships. Be successful finding love this fall by making these five methods part of your dating plan: