Since I started Bartender…Man Straight Up!, I’ve gotten so many wonderful tips for grabbing a guy’s attention and starting up a conversation. But I think some of the most valuable advice pertains to what not to do, so make sure you don’t blow your chances with the cute guy across the bar with one of these no-nos.
It happens to so many of us: we look in the mirror, a photo of ourselves, or a reflection in a shop window and say ‘ugh! I hate the way I look!’ At each opportunity we zoom into what we don’t like, such as the thighs or hips or big feet, or whatever feature that seems to be wrong. Why do we do this, and why does it matter, and why is it so painful every time?
Even if you don’t know exactly how to define it, everyone understands what a personal vibe is. It is that feeling you get about a person when you meet them, and it often has very little with what is said. For example, you may be naturally drawn to a guy who seems to be high-energy and fun-loving. Likewise, you may be repelled by a guy who comes off as creepy. You may not know exactly why you feel the way you do, but your feelings are undeniable.
Honestly, did you ever think you’d be reading an article about how to get a man? Of course you didn’t! But here you are; and I’m glad you came. Dating is easy… and hard. It’s easy because it’s natural to want a man, relationship, or significant other. However, it is often hard to initiate a conversation or approach a man you may find attractive or interesting.
Halloween is the cut off for breaking up - this is what I usually hear from individuals thinking of separating, divorcing or breaking up at this time of year. November feels too late; it is too close to the Holidays. And no one wants to be the jerk who leaves their spouse during Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukah, New Years, etc. But in October: Holiday plans can still be changed, gifts have not been purchased, plane tickets have not been bought and there is the perception that there will be enough time for some hea
What if you didn’t have to “fix” anything to live the life you’ve always dreamed of? What if you accepted this radical idea as truth and just set about living your amazing life? This is what I’m imploring you to do, chica. How so? Here are some principles that I invite you to embrace and allow to sink in: 1. You are lovingly and carefully made by a kind and benevolent Higher Power.
Except when my boyfriend and I are in each other’s company, we communicate exclusively through text message and Facebook chats. Over the past six months that we’ve been dating, I can literally count on one hand the number of times we’ve talked on the phone. Actually, I just need two fingers.
Can you believe it?! It’s almost time for that big date you’ve been looking forward to with your new crush. You’re super excited about spending some quality time getting to know each other better, but you’re also a bit anxious. Wanna make sure you’re properly prepared? Here are a few tips to help you get ready for your upcoming date… 1. Confirm the Date
Does it feel like your marriage is slowly unraveling? Do you get the sense that your husband feels disenchanted with your union and is disinterested in you? Your marriage may need a buff and polish. Here are 3 ways to help inspire your husband back to you: Communicate From An Open Heart Lots of nice wives, who go to church and have the respect of their families and communities, have an energy about them that makes their husbands feel castrated.
This guest article from Psych Central was written by Nathan Feiles, LMSW Sex in relationships is not always easy to maintain. Many things get in the way, from creating time for intimacy, to our own emotional issues that block intimacy, to issues in the relationship. It would take an entire book to discuss all the possible obstacles that could come between a couple and a healthy sex life, so rather than do this, let’s go right to some possible solutions.