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Women Using the Butterfly Effect to Create Change

Women Using the Butterfly Effect to Create Change

Last week, hundreds of women therapists, and a fair share of male therapists, converged upon Charlotte, North Carolina's Conventiontion Center. This swarm of couples, family and sex therapists is here in Charlotte for a much lower-key event than the excitement that took place in the same town, where the Democratic Convention walls held just days earlier. I am referring to the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy's Annual Conference.

How To Plan The Perfect Party For Your Divorce [EXPERT]
A toast to the happily divorced couple!

How To Plan The Perfect Party For Your Divorce

If you are getting divorced, you may want to plan a party to celebrate. After all, your girlfriends deserve to have some fun after the enormous amount of time and advice they've invested. Besides, you deserve to have a little fun, too.

6 Ways To Know You've Met Your Prince Charming [EXPERT]
Is there really such a thing as "prince charming"?

6 Ways To Know You've Met Your Prince Charming

Our culture tends to have a fairytale vision of what marriage should really be. Couples often enter into a marriage having had more discussion about the type of cake they want for their wedding rather than a conversation about their commitment and values in their relationship and marriage. So how do you know if you've found the one?

The Couple That Prays Together ... [EXPERT]
Are your religious differences putting strain on your relationship?

The Couple That Prays Together ...

Spirituality has been linked to mental health by a number of studies including one from the University of Missouri. While this study focused on how spirituality was linked to individual mental health, increased spirituality also helps in the area of forgiveness in couples.

Dirty Talk: When, Where, and How Much

Dirty Talk: When, Where, and How Much

The other day after getting home I noticed that I had a message on my answering machine. When I went to listen to it I could not believe the voice I heard, it was The Frenchman. I don’t think I can remember the last time I talked to him, the last time I heard his voice, it has to be at least 6 months since I last talked to him. But why was he calling me? I guess that can be another story for another time. But hearing his voice is what lead me to my post for this week. Dirty Talk.

The Importance Of Getting Help For Your Fears And  Anxieties

The Importance Of Getting Help For Your Fears And Anxieties

Getting professional help for dealing with your persistent fears and anxieties is the single most important step in your recovery. Many people are reluctant to get the help they need for various reasons. Making excuses of not getting the treatment for your anxiety problems will not solve the problem. Here are a few reasons on why getting help is important.

Are You Sabotaging Your Own Dating Life? [EXPERT]
You never know who you're missing out on meeting because of your list.

Are You Sabotaging Your Own Dating Life?

I hear singles complain about the hardships of dating and being lonely. They will blame everybody else for not living up to their expectations, but the reality is that they have closed themselves off to many possibilities by failing to be flexible with their preferences. Newsflash! This is the type of B.S that will keep you single!

Use Your Mind To Attract Your Perfect Partner (EXPERT)

Use Your Mind To Attract Your Perfect Partner (EXPERT)

For some women finding the man of their dreams can be a life long, frustrating, endeavor.  One of my closest friends, who happens to also be an amazingly positive person, finally  found her perfect partner. She went through four husbands before she found Robert when she was 49 years old. I guarantee that you don't have to spend painful years trying to find your perfect partner.  When you learn to pay attention to your thoughts and shift your beliefs about men and