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3 Ways To Transform An Ah-ha Moment Into The Results You Desire

3 Ways To Transform An Ah-ha Moment Into The Results You Desire

Oprah Winfrey’s famous phrase, ‘the aha moment’ has just been added to the 2012 edition of the Merriam Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary. An ‘aha moment’ is defined as ‘a moment of sudden realization, inspiration, insight, recognition of comprehension.’ How can we make our own ‘aha moments’ work for us for real change?

Bad Pick Up Lines

Bad Pick Up Lines

Men are so bad at picking up girls! They have to try to be funny and that humor is lost on us, because all we want is a guy to say, "Hi, how are you?" That is the best ice breaker when you find someone attractive.  Grabbing a girls hand and saying, "I know you!" When you have never seen that man in your life, is also another bad one! Or, "Girl I know you have to be tired, because you have been running through my mind all day!" UGH! Is what I think when a guy tries to pick me up with these lame lines.

Why Older Couples Are Marrying Less Often

Why Older Couples Are Marrying Less Often

Love is wonderful at any age. The excitement, the bliss, the romance. Yet, there’s also no question that as we age, love can get more complicated. As a dating coach, I often hear how my clients do not want to marry again. I know this may not sound romantic, but it’s a very practical side of relationships. I’m not against marriage by any stretch of the imagination. But I do recognize why older couples are choosing alternative living arrangements.

5 Sure-Fire Ways To Ruin Your Relationship [EXPERT]
It doesn't take a gun to ruin a relationship.

5 Sure-Fire Ways To Ruin Your Relationship

We always hear about the foods and chemicals that quietly erode our health. But, while we don't hear about them as frequently, there are similarly dangerous threats to our relationships. The sooner you identify any of these five things in your relationship, the better your chances are of saving it.

Dance Your Way Into Total Total Health

Dance Your Way Into Total Total Health

I am the developer of a community-based practice for wellness called Dancing Mindfulness. Mindfulness is the ancient practice of noticing without judgment, a practice that seems so simple, yet one that we often neglect in our fast-paced, modern lives. Whether it is used as a gateway to higher spiritual growth or as a path to more balanced, centered living, the applications of mindfulness are various…as are the ways to achieve it. Dancing Mindfulness uses the art form of dance as the primary medium of discovering mindful awareness.

Finding Love After Trauma

Finding Love After Trauma

A question that I often get as a trauma specialist how can I "shake" my past to move forward with a meaningful love relationship? The roadblocks that unresolved trauma can leave us are pervasive, especially when we receive messages like "I'm unloveable," "I'm permanently damaged," or "I deserve only bad things." Join me in this interview with relationship coach Lorii Abela as I talk about love after trauma:  

Why Do Men Push Away The Women They Like? [EXPERT]
Has a guy every pushed you away?

Why Do Men Push Away The Women They Like?

In the end, all he had to do was say he was sorry and mean it. But, there is also the fact that he didn't need to do what he did to mess it up in the first place. Think before you do things because the consequence is ending something that you will miss and never get back.

Is Your Partner An Energy Vampire?

Is Your Partner An Energy Vampire?

The most wide spread human activity on this Planet is not what you think!…What human beings do most, everywhere, anytime, is stealing other human beings' vital energy. As many Eastern healing arts and medicine (Traditional Chinese Medicine, Ayurveda, etc) describe, we are mainly made of energy, in different levels of density (we have 7 bodies, or energy fields around our physical body).

Is Your Schedule Impacting Your Child's Routine?

Is Your Schedule Impacting Your Child's Routine?

Is Your Schedule Impacting Your Child’s Routine?   Getting home at the same time from work never seems to work out. When you get home your exhausted and burnt out from your day. You didn’t even get to have a “break” on your way home from work because traffic was horrific or your concentration ability has been sucked out of you from your day. You come home and your husband has the kids on the couch watching a movie.

Are You A Bitter Woman?

Are You A Bitter Woman?

In an effort to help you understand the man side of this midlife dating experience, I’ve introduced you to The Princess, The 18 Year Old, The Scaredy Cat and The Wow-Me Woman: all FemiTypes* that send good men running. Today I’m going to talk about perhaps the most challenging of all FemiTypes: The Bitter Woman. She is a little scary, a lot angry, and all about being a victim. Not only does she scare and briefly traumatize the men she meets, but her bitterness probably seeps into all areas of her life.