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What Hurricane Sandy Can Teach Us About Love [EXPERT]
Were you affected by Sandy?

What Hurricane Sandy Can Teach Us About Love

Hurricane Sandy has brought a lot pain and heartache to the East Coast. For the rest of us who are physically untouched by the storm, we can't help but feel for the people who've lost their homes and their way of life.

Emotional Differences with Men and Woman

Emotional Differences with Men and Woman

You may wonder how you became so emotionally different from your mate. If we start at the beginning, God created all embryos to begin life “female” in nature with the fetus starting out very similar in all areas of the brain and body.  The brain was created with two sides that have separate functions that work together with a massive intertwining of nerve fibers allowing both sides to function beautifully together.  Approximately, the seventh week of pregnancy a strong dose of the hormone, testosterone, covers the male fetus to masculinize the body.  This hormo

Diabetes is Not Who I am

Diabetes is Not Who I am

Many people who develop Diabetes or other chronic diseases, become angry and resentful.  While these feelings may seem appropriate, until a person accepts their disease and takes responsibility in managing it, the disease controls them rather than the other way around.  Diabetes requires a great deal of education as well as time, effort and money in order to control the blood sugar and avoid secondary complications.  Patients often receive excellent advise about diet, exercise, and appropriate medication.  Often, they ignore their spiritual and emotional needs and let

Your Vision Can Become Reality

Your Vision Can Become Reality

I recently had a therapy client return to me after her marriage of 10 years fell apart.  Needless to say, she was devastated by her husband’s decision to end their relationship in pursuit of another.  She felt so betrayed and her future bankrupted by his selfish decision that she had lost all direction as to where and who she wanted to be in life.  Sitting in front of me, she admitted that she felt as though she were floundering and unable to gain traction in any way.  As a therapist, I provided her with emotional support and psychological comfort.  As a co

What's The Secret To Being A Great Parent? (EXPERT)

What's The Secret To Being A Great Parent? (EXPERT)

There are no secrets to being a ‘good’ parent. There are no truly “new” ideas out there. It’s all about a few basic principles: respect, responsibility, truth, flexibility, resilience, courage. Show it in words and actions so your kids know exactly how it looks and sounds. Those are the building blocks. Do them with greater and greater frequency and watch things change.

A Little Less Shame, A Lot More Love

A Little Less Shame, A Lot More Love

We can learn so much from our pets, in their innocence and purity of heart. They enjoy every moment, they are always excited about the future, and, most of all, they are completely shameless. They live in the present moment, carry no guilt or negative emotions over their actions of the past and, no matter what, they love well. My beautiful puppy Ethan thinks nothing of rolling over and exposing his soft underbelly to be rubbed, whether to me or a complete stranger. He is not ashamed to show who he is, or ask for what he wants.

Addiction Pandemic:   7 Reasons We’re Addicted to Everything

Addiction Pandemic: 7 Reasons We’re Addicted to Everything

To start off Part 2 of this article, here’s just a partial list of contemporary Addiction Types on the MyAddiction.com website:  Alcohol Addiction,  Ambien Addiction, Amphetamine Addiction, Benzodiazepine Addiction, Caffeine Addiction, Cocaine Addiction, Crack Addiction, Eating Disorders, Ecstasy Addiction, Gambling Addiction, Heroin Addiction, Internet Addiction, Marijuana Addiction, Meth Addiction, Nicotine Addiction, Opioid Addiction, Hydrocodone Addiction, Methadone Addiction, Oxycontin Addiction, Percocet Addiction, Vicodin, Pornography Addiction, Presc

The Art of Flirting: How To Flirt As A Couple [EXPERT]
Flirting is a sure-fire way to keep your love life hot.

The Art of Flirting: How To Flirt As A Couple

More than once in my practice as a Marriage and Family therapist, I have been asked by a client, "How can I get my partner interested in sex?" I tell them we communicate with more than words. We also use body language to communicate with those we love and flirting is a special way of increasing both sexual excitement and intimacy in a relationship.