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Celebrate National Masturbation Month!

Celebrate National Masturbation Month!

Happy Masturbation Month! That’s right, May is National Masturbation Month. Get ready to celebrate self pleasuring all month long. National Masturbation Month was started in 1995 by the sex educators at Good Vibrations, in response to the controversy surrounding the firing of Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders, who infamously recommended that masturbation be taught as part of sex education curriculum.

Should You Date Without Butterflies?

Should You Date Without Butterflies?

Should you continue to date someone if you are feeling no butterflies in your stomach or attraction? This is a complicated question and one that is worth taking time to study. Look at your previous attractions and see if the people you dated were good for you or lowered your self-esteem. Just because you are have high chemistry with someone doesn’t mean that it will be long-lasting relationship good for you. Similar to sweets, we may love to load up on them but are they nourishing us?

Office Romance

Office Romance

Office romances such as dating a man in the workplace are full of risks. Before you start flirting over the copy machine, think about where an office romance could take you. In fact, your company may have a firm policy discouraging dating a co-worker or at least dating a person within the same department. Moral of the story: Think before you date a co-worker.

The Concept Of “FREE” Does Not Exist In A Successful Relationship

The Concept Of “FREE” Does Not Exist In A Successful Relationship

Dictionary.com defines Whore as(noun): 1 A woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet. (Understanding Why Men Treat Some Women Like Queens and Others like Whores) I know you all like free t-shirts and concert tickets from V103, Power 106, 94.7 the Wave or whatever your favorite radio station is. But men are not the radio. Ladies, if you cannot truly offer to leave a tip after a nice dinner then you should not go on the date. Suggest something like, “How about I save you some money.

The Perfect Relationship

The Perfect Relationship

We're all searching for it: the perfect relationship.   What is the perfect relationship? In all honesty, there is no perfect relationship, but there are spectacular, amazing, powerful relationships that we all can be having.   So then how do you have that spectacular, amazing relationship? You find a man whose shit you can deal with.   That's right: find a man whose shit does not bother you.

Great Foreplay Means More Play

Great Foreplay Means More Play

No one could argue that a great sexual encounter requires some degree of inspiration to get things going. The catchall term for this is “Foreplay.” But what is foreplay really? Is it words of endearment, spicy texting before you meet, a great massage, two shots of tequila, a house full of lit candles and Erotic Moods playing on the stereo, skinny dipping in a cold lake, or a playful spanking? The answer is, “All of the above and then some!” But how do we know what works for who, how much and when? 

Can you pass the "Tell the Parents" test?

Can you pass the "Tell the Parents" test?

Finding out that the woman you are dating hasn't told her parents about you can be hard to hear. Why hasn't told them? Is she ashamed of dating you? Does she feel this relationship is not serious enough to tell her parents? Here we explore what to do and why she may not have told her parents about you.

You Are the People You Hang Out With

You Are the People You Hang Out With

From the day you are born you are like a sponge, absorbing the thoughts and opinions of others. You might say that every person with whom you come in contact is a mentor, influencing how you see yourself and the world. What are you taking in - negativity or inspiration, garbage or gold? And what do you put back out? How does this affect your self-esteem? Decide who and what you will let in.