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Reignite Your Relationship By Valentine's Day!

Reignite Your Relationship By Valentine's Day!

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Dr. Adam Sheck shares three tools to create a more passionate relationship by Valentine's Day!

Ready To Reignite Your Relationship? It’s almost Valentine’s Day and while I’m not a big Hallmark kind of guy, I DO know that many of the couples that I counsel come to see me because they want to reignite their relationship and have more romance and passion in their lives. And after 20 years of counseling couples, I believe that I have a few tips to offer you.  Hint: it's NOT about candy and flowers!

How To Cut Energetic Ties After Sex

How To Cut Energetic Ties After Sex

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Create a ritual and detox your system from past lovers once and for all.

If the sexual revolution is valid and casual sex is fun and appropriate for some, why is there so much heartbreak? Why is it so hard to move on after a break up?  Why can't some women just let go?   It may not be fair, but women are truly "tied" to their sexual partners.  It is inevitable....it is hard wired into your biology.

How To Deal With Your Lover's Female Friends

How To Deal With Your Lover's Female Friends

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The trick to coping with friends of the opposite sex? Embrace them.

Why is it as soon as your lover shows signs of independent life, you freak out? What is it about your Significant Other having same-sex friends that makes you nuts? I’m enjoying the late afternoon sun sipping coffee at an outside terrace, when the couple next to me – young, cool-looking, very hip - start arguing.

Is Your Marriage Over?

Is Your Marriage Over?

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When does a marriage become impossible? Are there certain problems that are impossible to overcome?

The only time I believe in giving up on a marriage is when one of them dies, or if after their divorce one of them marries someone else, or if one of them continues involvement in an activity that makes the marriage impossible. Otherwise, I believe there is a chance to reconcile. The first two – death or one of them marrying someone else – are obvious. Allow me to briefly explain the third.

Chemistry And Finding The Right Man

Chemistry And Finding The Right Man

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We can’t control who we’re attracted to. Learn how the stars reveal how chemistry & attraction work.

Chemistry And Finding The Right Man By Carol Allen Have you ever noticed that you can't control who you're attracted to? You can meet a guy that seems perfect in every way - he has a solid job, good friends, a great family, and yet he doesn't send your heart aflutter.

Relationship Bill of Rights

Relationship Bill of Rights

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Ever thought about what a relationship “should” be… what a self-loving, self-respecting person is entitled to in a healthy relationship? Of course you have! I’ve addressed this in various dimensions in lots of other posts but I thought it would be fun to draft a general Relationship Bill of Rights. Mine can serve as a guide for you to begin one of your own, based on your particular experiences and ideals. In my opinion, you are born with the inalienable right to a relationship that:

Are You Guilty of an Instant Relationship?

Are You Guilty of an Instant Relationship?

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Did he suddenly stop calling you? Learn the reasons why & what will keep him calling again & again.

By Christian Carter Author of best-selling eBook Catch Him & Keep Him and free newsletter   I’m going to tell you something that’s going to save you a ton of time – especially the hours you spend dissecting a man’s behavior. When a man doesn’t call once you’ve connected in a deeper way, there are only three possible reasons why:

Dissolving Defenses

Dissolving Defenses

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There is an old story out of Jewish lore about a couple imprisoned in a tower by an evil ruler. The man and his wife are chained by the ankles in the top of the tower, a small circular dungeon, with a pot of soup between them. They are each given a spoon the size of a boat oar, impossible to use in such a small space. They proceed to argue about the best way to survive, and the fight escalates. He pokes her trying to do it his way, she clubs him trying to do it hers. No one is listening.

Why Do People Have Pubic Hair?

Why Do People Have Pubic Hair?

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Experts aren’t exactly sure why we have pubic hair, but there are a few theories which make sense.

Have you ever thought about why do humans have pubic hair? What is its purpose? It seems no one (at least under 30) is letting his or her bush sprout. Instead everyone is talking about what to do with their pubes. Should I shave them? Dye them? Trim them down to a runway strip? Experts aren’t exactly sure why we have pubic hair, but there are a few theories which seem to make a lot of sense.