As a clinical sexologist and relationship coach I counsel couples in marriage who are having difficulty with having a fulfilling sex life. Most of my clients will have invested years in marriage counseling already or come to the point in the marriage where they know a change must be made. When couples allow their sex lives in marriage to become boring, not important or sexless, the couple now becomes roommates rather than share in a marriage.
continued from part 1 Excessive calls to his place of employment What are you trying to do? Get him fired? Now your man cannot pay his phone bill or even his rent, because you assisted in getting him fired. Now he must move in with you because you overextended yourself with phone calls to his job.
If you are someone who occasionally lies, you know where your line is. You know when you feel it’s OK to tell a lie, and when you feel you must be truthful. But here's the problem: No one else will ever know where you draw that line. If you lie about even the littlest thing, your spouse or significant other will wonder about everything you say. You will never be able to articulate to your partner how you come to the decision to lie. And just as important, you will never be able to justify it.
As a smart professional woman, your career success depends on masculine traits (i.e. being driven, assertive, strong, in charge, controlling, etc.). When a woman is competitive with a man, he may admire and respect her in the corporate world. But when it comes to love, a man isn’t looking for a woman to be a better man than he is. Masculine traits applied to love keep you from experiencing a meaningful connection with a masculine man.
"Is there a break up in your past that was hard to get over?" "No, I'm fine. I make it a point to never have regrets and I just put them behind me." said the beautiful still-single-at-40 attorney sharply. I could tell she was a little annoyed. "I see." I said. "How many breakups are behind you?" "Six, but what does that have to do with my Love Magnet." "Let me show you," I said to her gently. (Want to peek over my shoulder and listen in?)
Even if your sex life has been lackluster previously, there are at least four reasons it can be the best now. If you never knew what the fuss was about, if you have fallen into a sexless marriage, or if you are still a virgin, things can change for you now. With no more young children in the home, there is much more time to be truly intimate with your partner.
What DO men want in a relationship? It’s an age-old question. If you’ve already read “Dating with Dignity’s Guide to What Men Really Want: Three Myths and Three Truths to Stop Wondering Today!”, you’re headed in the right direction. The problem is, women think the obvious answer to this important question is, well, sex and dinner.
We all have long work hours and demanding schedules, so how do you meet someone if you are always working? What if you meet someone interesting at work? Should you take the risk by engaging in a potentially awkward or inappropriate relationship? Here's one single guy's dilemma...
Dear Dr. Romance: Do I have an unhealthy celebrity obsession? I really need answers and help! I feel this is still unresolved? Does anyone else have an obsession with a particular celebrity to the degree that you wanna look, act, talk, dress and live like them. I do, I wanna look like her in photos if I dont I'm upset, I live like her as in if she does something then I do it, if she does her hair in a certain way I copy it that's how obsessed I am with looking like her.
People are dating strangers more than ever before. People plan dates with people they have met online. They have no history or friends in common. They did not meet at school, at work, at church, or out in the community. And while you may think you know a little bit about this person from your digital interaction, in reality, you know nothing. People can present themselves any way they want online. In other words, blind dates are truly blind dates. In the old days, there was a natural vetting process—where you had time to get to know someone before going on your first date.