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11 Golden Codes to Becoming a Great Partner

11 Golden Codes to Becoming a Great Partner

Golden Rule: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you ". Every one wants a great relationship, but the only control you have is control over yourself. So to have a great relationship, you need to be a great partner. To becoming a great partner one should embody the following eleven codes:   I. Believe in the Golden Rule as the basis of all human conduct; therefore, never do to your partner that which you would not be willing for that person to do to you if the positions were reversed.

How to Cultivate Gratitude After a Broken Heart

How to Cultivate Gratitude After a Broken Heart

"When we lose one blessing, another is often, most unexpectedly, given in its place.” – C.S. Lewis When gratitude is the furthest thing from your mind Much of the information about gratitude focuses on finding things and people in your life that you are grateful for and keeping a daily gratitude journal listing 3 to 5 things that you’re thankful for. While this is a good practice, we’re going to explore the kind of gratitude that’s more difficult to cultivate.

Sometimes a "Quickie" is in order

Sometimes a "Quickie" is in order

Couples can keep the fun alive even when they have busy lives by making sure to keep each other's intimacy needs in mind.  When you both have busy careers, kids, family, and all kinds of other events going on sometimes a Quickie is just the medicine to keep one or both partners satisfied when there's not a lot of time for a full blown lovemaking session!

No One's Business

No One's Business

The recent revelation that one of the highest ranking former generals in the United States armed forces participated in a consensual extramarital affair brings up a lot of issues, not the least of which is the discussion of sex outside of marriage and whether this is acceptable or not. In this blog post, I would like to keep the focus on the issue of infidelity, for lack of a better term, and leave the discussion about impacts on national security to the experts.

What turns a modern woman on?

What turns a modern woman on?

What turns you on is much different than what turns a woman on.  You are visual.  You see an attractive woman, and you notice her body, the color of her skin, her gorgeous hair, the shape of her breasts, her buttocks, legs and her own body language.  You start to have sexual thoughts about this woman and are completely aroused.  If she smiles at you and gives you eye contact, then the arousal increases due to the levels of testosterone you produce as a man.

How to Protect Your Heart During the Holidays

How to Protect Your Heart During the Holidays

What is the most stressed part of your body during holiday gatherings? At first response you may say stomach. As we delve deeper the most active or stressed organs during these gatherings is our heart and mind. That’s why it’s so important to plan with the diligence what we are going to: say, do and feel during these intimate interactions.

The Petraeus Affair:  Is Cheating a  Two-Way Street & Other Quest

The Petraeus Affair: Is Cheating a Two-Way Street & Other Quest

The recent affair between Gen. Petraeus and his biographer Paula Broadwell has the country up in arms about whether his infidelity caused a security breach of some sort or put our country in danger. What should our concerns really be? Is monogamy in danger? When someone cheats, who is really to blame? And why do so many powerful men cheat?