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Do You Debate Like Romney & Obama? [EXPERT]
Did you watch the latest debate?

Do You Debate Like Romney & Obama?

Maybe it is too late to have a civilized political exchange, but perhaps we can extract some communication lessons from the macro level for people to use on a micro level. Here's how.

Why You Know Your Marriage Is In Trouble

Why You Know Your Marriage Is In Trouble

I’ve been working with women in all stages of divorce for a long time now, and regardless of whether she was aware of it or not, every woman deep down inside knew that her marriage was in trouble before the divorce ever became a reality.  My guess is that men experience the same thing.

Four Steps To Start Loving Your Reflection In The Mirror

Four Steps To Start Loving Your Reflection In The Mirror

It happens to so many of us: we look in the mirror, a photo of ourselves, or a reflection in a shop window and say ‘ugh! I hate the way I look!’ At each opportunity we zoom into what we don’t like, such as the thighs or hips or big feet, or whatever feature that seems to be wrong. Why do we do this, and why does it matter, and why is it so painful every time?

Attracting A Man With Goof Vibrations

Attracting A Man With Goof Vibrations

Even if you don’t know exactly how to define it, everyone understands what a personal vibe is. It is that feeling you get about a person when you meet them, and it often has very little with what is said. For example, you may be naturally drawn to a guy who seems to be high-energy and fun-loving. Likewise, you may be repelled by a guy who comes off as creepy. You may not know exactly why you feel the way you do, but your feelings are undeniable.

Finding A Man Is The First Step

Finding A Man Is The First Step

Honestly, did you ever think you’d be reading an article about how to get a man? Of course you didn’t! But here you are; and I’m glad you came. Dating is easy… and hard. It’s easy because it’s natural to want a man, relationship, or significant other. However, it is often hard to initiate a conversation or approach a man you may find attractive or interesting.

October: The Break-Up Season

October: The Break-Up Season

Halloween is the cut off for breaking up - this is what I usually hear from individuals thinking of separating, divorcing or breaking up at this time of year.  November feels too late; it is too close to the Holidays. And no one wants to be the jerk who leaves their spouse during Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukah, New Years, etc.  But in October: Holiday plans can still be changed, gifts have not been purchased, plane tickets have not been bought and there is the perception that there will be enough time for some hea

What if your life as you know it was perfect right now?

What if your life as you know it was perfect right now?

What if you didn’t have to “fix” anything to live the life you’ve always dreamed of? What if you accepted this radical idea as truth and just set about living your amazing life? This is what I’m imploring you to do, chica.  How so? Here are some principles that I invite you to embrace and allow to sink in: 1. You are lovingly and carefully made by a kind and benevolent Higher Power.  

Couples Communicating In The Modern Age

Couples Communicating In The Modern Age

Except when my boyfriend and I are in each other’s company, we communicate exclusively through text message and Facebook chats. Over the past six months that we’ve been dating, I can literally count on one hand the number of times we’ve talked on the phone. Actually, I just need two fingers.  

5 Ways To Prep For Your Big Date

5 Ways To Prep For Your Big Date

Can you believe it?! It’s almost time for that big date you’ve been looking forward to with your new crush. You’re super excited about spending some quality time getting to know each other better, but you’re also a bit anxious. Wanna make sure you’re properly prepared? Here are a few tips to help you get ready for your upcoming date… 1. Confirm the Date