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Are You Selfish? 6 Ways To Tell [EXPERT]
Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the most selfish of them all?

Are You Selfish? 6 Ways To Tell

Healthy, happy relationships are based on caring, cooperation, and commitment. Your partner and relationship must be a top priority for you. Selfishness, or being overly concerned with just your needs, wants, and feelings prevents you from holding up your end of a mutually satisfying relationship.

 THE VIRTUES OF NON-EJACULATORY SEX FOR MEN

THE VIRTUES OF NON-EJACULATORY SEX FOR MEN

Because their sexual conditioning is so strong, and their belief system so firmly entrenched in the old ways of thinking, most men on this planet still believe the destructive myth that ejaculation is the highest expression of male sexual power, and that coming is a man’s highest option in sex. Let me set the record straight right now. Men develop sexual potency, penile strength, a heightened orgasmic response and ecstatic pleasure not by coming, but by withholding ejaculation.

Anxious Parenting: Are You Guilty Of It? [EXPERT]
Every mom needs to calm down.

Anxious Parenting: Are You Guilty Of It?

Does your child's behavior, the choices he or she makes, and fears about how he will turn out weigh you down, making you feel like it's all somehow a reflection on you? When our kids don't act in ways we think they should, it's natural to feel anxious and responsible; we're only human. But, when we do this, we stop seeing the boundary between where we end and where our child begins. We become fused with them.

Letting Go Of Self Doubt!

Letting Go Of Self Doubt!

Is there something in your life that you would like to do, yet you find yourself holding back? It seems even the most accomplished people who excel in one or more areas of their life, often find themselves gripped by self-doubt in another. This hesitation, uncertainty or lack of confidence to move forward can weigh on you like a ton of bricks. It drains your energy and robs you of joy and optimism. What are some signs that you doubt yourself? 1. You put off making a change or decision that you know is in your best interest.

Better Beach Weddings

Better Beach Weddings

While the following article is written specifically for the Atlantic Coast of Florida, much of the advice can apply to virtually any beach around the world. A great number of the weddings I officiate take place along the ocean shore. Beach weddings range from a simple three person elopement to elaborate affairs complete with arches, tiki torches and garden chairs. All of these ceremonies are quite lovely, but there are a few things you can do to optimize everyone's enjoyment.

The 4 Steps to Getting Unstuck

The 4 Steps to Getting Unstuck

I haven’t picked up a fashion magazine in years (I know, weird, huh?) and the other day I was at the airport and was looking for some light n’ frothy reading, and a fashion magazine packed with airbrushed and spray-tanned celebrities wearing $1,000 shoes and $25,000 dresses seemed to fit the bill.

Break Free From Emotional Eating!

Break Free From Emotional Eating!

Breaking free from emotional eating is more attainable than most of us first believe. I once walked out of a therapist’s office, never to return after I asked him, “Is it really possible to heal this?”. At the time I was a stress eater. As a single mom, I had a lot of stress and this equated to a lot of overeating. He said, “Yes, Laurel, it is possible.” I didn’t believe him and turned my back on getting help. I suffered needlessly mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically for years after as a result.

The #1 Reason Why Diets Fail

The #1 Reason Why Diets Fail

The first diet I went on (keyword "first" out of many) was calorie counting with Weight Watchers(R). They don't like to use the word "diet", but let's face it, they are giving you numerical parameters to follow. When calorie counting got such a bad rap in the 90s, because it really didn't solve our problems long term, they switched over to points, which was a fancy name for the grouping of calories. Don't get me wrong. Weight Watchers(R) has helped many women.

Oh the Joys of Dating How We Love Thee

Oh the Joys of Dating How We Love Thee

Something is definitely in the water! The past few months my guy friends have become more needy and my girlfriends have become more feisty and more about the "booty call". It seems men have decided, at least this month, that they are looking for love and some are definitely looking in the wrong places.