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Wondering Where to Meet Singles?

Not into the club scene and wondering where to meet single men and women? Then follow some of these tips: • Get active - Ten most popular sports are: fitness walking 39%, swimming 32%, billiards 25%, bowling 21%, weight training 20%, basketball 18%, running 16%, fishing 15%, camping 15%, using cardio machines 14%.

How Can You Get Out Of Your Own Way & Find Love?

How Can You Get Out Of Your Own Way & Find Love?

It’s almost the end of January.   How are your commitments for love going?  Have you created a structure for making your dreams come true this year? Most people, on New Year’s Day, are pretty psyched about their resolutions, especially when it comes to getting an amazing body, making more money, or finally finding true love. But just a few weeks later, the excitement dissipates. Even the smartest, most well-intentioned people find themselves falling back into their usual mindsets.  

4 Ways To Overcome Obstacles To Your Happiness

4 Ways To Overcome Obstacles To Your Happiness

Everyone wants to be happy, right? We work, love, travel, pine, long for, dream and plan in hopes of bringing ourselves some pleasure. The quest for feeling good, actually, drives just about everything we do. I’ll bet right this minute you can think of things that would make you very, very happy indeed. And yet, despite a lot of effort you may not be as happy as you’d like. What’s standing in your way?

Intimacy in 1 Minute — After Porn or Sex Addiction

Intimacy in 1 Minute — After Porn or Sex Addiction

For an intimate connection to grow, it needs attention and nurturing. While this is true for every couple, it is mission critical for couples rekindling intimacy after sex or porn addiction has wreaked havoc on their lives. My wife and I call this condition "sex affliction." Sex affliction occurs when a relationship suffers a profound attack against its safety, vulnerability, intimacy, and sex, caused by one partner's sexual betrayal with porn and/or people.

How A Negative Body Image Keeps You Single

How A Negative Body Image Keeps You Single

I HATE my thighs. My butt is so big. I am so fat. I am so ugly. I would be attractive if I could just change my nose.  How often do these thoughts run through your mind? Why do we do this to ourselves? I cannot tell you how much time I have spent criticizing my body. Analyzing it from every angle, squeezing chunks of flesh and berating myself because I wasn’t perfect. Well, I’m done. I think in some misguided way, those actions were meant to motivate me in some way. It motivated me alright! It motivated me to eat my dissatisfaction.

Don't Judge A Guy By His Looks

Don't Judge A Guy By His Looks

 It’s true that guys normally consider first impressions solely upon the looks of the female. However, women are equally guilty. Can you honestly say that you would want to be approached by the least attractive guy in the room? This type of behavior can be very detrimental when it comes to seducing a guy. At the end of the day, guys like to be appreciated for who they are and not what they look like; just as you do.