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How to Stay Calm at the Altar

How to Stay Calm at the Altar

I'll tell you the secret: not only how to stay calm at the altar but also how to have a truly joyous wedding day. After counseling thousands of women over the last fourteen years through their engagement, I can tell you with a fair amount of certainty what it takes to be a blissful bride. But first I'm going to tell you what most women do that nearly ensures that they'll be a wreck at their wedding.  

Happy Halloween! 3 Ways To Meet Men, Not Monsters [EXPERT]
Haven't you met enough Frankensteins?

Happy Halloween! 3 Ways To Meet Men, Not Monsters

I know how hard it can be to find love with a good man. I understand when women complain to me that the men out there are terrible. All the good ones are taken. And what's left are scary monsters like Frankenstein – OK I've got Halloween on my mind.

4 Reasons To Have A Father-Daughter Sex Talk [EXPERT]
Have you talked to your daughter yet?

4 Reasons To Have A Father-Daughter Sex Talk

A new study shows when dads talk with their children about sex, those children have less sex during adolescence. While it's traditional in many families for the mother to talk to her daughters and for the father to talk to his sons, here are at least four reasons why it is important for fathers to also talk to their daughters about sex.

Halloween Weddings: Fab Or Frightening? [EXPERT]
How will you make your fall wedding ghoulishly glamorous?

Halloween Weddings: Fab Or Frightening?

A bridal party dressed as fairies and pirates? Freshly carved pumpkin centerpieces? Frankenstein groom and a equally frightening bride? A hand-tied bouquet crawling with rhinestone spiders? Halloween weddings are a real thing and it might be the theme of your upcoming nuptials.

Watching pornography can be considered cheating in your marriage

Watching pornography can be considered cheating in your marriage

As a clinical sexologist and relationship counselor I have been asked on many occasions by people if I perceived that watching pornography while being in a relationship is considered cheating. My answer is based on how we define the word “cheating”.  As a counselor I have seen all too many relationships destroyed by lack of open honest communication between husband and wife.  The definition that I feel is appropriate to us

How To Talk To Your Kids About Your Divorce [EXPERT]
What would you say?

How To Talk To Your Kids About Your Divorce

As if getting divorced isn't difficult enough, add kids into the mix and you've got a whole extra layer of complications. What should you say to them? What should you avoid saying? How can you help them through it?

Break The Connection Before You Break Your Wallet

Break The Connection Before You Break Your Wallet

As mentioned in a previous article, the duration of separation is lengthy, averaging over three years. In working with our clients, we’ve found that that the major reason for the man to delay filing for divorce is fear of loss; the emotional connection with your spouse, not seeing your kids every day, and a big decrease in your finances.