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How to Transform Retail Hell!

How to Transform Retail Hell!

Today we are going to be talking about how to turn retail hell into, well, peace on earth! Okay, at least we’ll get a piece of really great advice that will make us all feel a lot better! We are all under added stress today, just trying to make ends meet, so many things up in the air—our health care, our kids, our job security is in question for many of us, and we are simply trying to make sure we have a roof over our heads and food on the table.

Why Watching TV Is A Health Risk

Why Watching TV Is A Health Risk

For those of us who can remember back to the 1960s, TV was a special event. Our weekend home in CT boasted two working channels and many hours where there were, well, no shows on at all! Fast forward to our day and age where we can get almost any content on demand from our computers and on TV.

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What It Takes To Be Monogamous

Personally, I'm shocked that the TV show The Bachelor and its sister show The Bachelorette are still going strong! The shows' longevity speaks to how focused we are, as a society, on the dating portion of romance. As a culture, we have turned the search for love into a competition, a game, entertainment ... when what we really need are stories and examples of what happens after two people find each other.

Choosing Happiness In Our Lives, Revisited

Choosing Happiness In Our Lives, Revisited

Ten years ago, I wrote how we often make the choice of something else less important over our own and our loved ones’ happiness. This article has generated a lot of positive comments over the years apparently because it resonates with people. With another decade under my belt, I’d like to expand a little on the premise I put forward in that original article.

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How much would you spend on a sandwich?

How 5 Sandwiches Nearly Ruined A Relationship

It would be funny if it weren't so tragic. A recent CU grad and his girlfriend had been dating for almost three years and things were going very well. You could say they were "serious." Neither one had ever dated anyone else for this long. They enjoyed silly games, working out and healthy debates about editorials in the paper. They knew a lot of the same people, and were committed to finding "the one" and starting a family ... and then five roast beef sandwiches ruined everything.

What To Expect When Dating Foreign Men

What To Expect When Dating Foreign Men

In this chaotic world, dating someone from a country other than your own can be a real adventure. The fascination begins with his sexy accent or the way he mangles your native language. Perhaps he is more passionate than the local men, and he really treats you like a princess. But there are cultural differences to be aware of.

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With Tantra

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With Tantra

Hoping to get your pulse racing, your kundalini rising, and your chakras spinning like tops? Explore which path of Tantra will get your aura started. I imagine that 50 shades is actually a modest estimation. This is increasingly true in this modern age, especially now that Tantra is becoming so popular here in the West. Tantra has been around for thousands of years and continues to evolve as Eastern philosophy meets Western psychology.

Choice Decisions: No Crying Allowed

Choice Decisions: No Crying Allowed

All Alone There was absolutely no safe place for me to share about the grief I was feeling.  I knew I couldn’t go to my church and receive anything but condemnation.  The nightmares continued as did the episodes of waking up at night crying.  I made an appointment with a professional counselor in a city 180 miles from my home to seek help. 

4 Things You Might Not Know About Your Abortion

4 Things You Might Not Know About Your Abortion

January 22 was the 40th year landmark of legalized abortion in our nation.  While voluntary pregnancy termination or “vpt” (as I like to refer to it) is not anything women set out to do as a goal “per se, it is a road that millions of women have found themselves on the last four decades.   If you have an abortion secret in your past there are four things you need to know about your choice decision.