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How To Cure To Dating Frustration

How To Cure To Dating Frustration

Have you ever wanted to just “give up” on men?  Have you suffered through enough awful dates that you’ve lost your faith that there are any good men out there any more? If so, you’re not alone. Recently, I was coaching a very accomplished woman.   She is attractive, toned, highly educated and has a great, open laugh.  She had been through a long marriage, which ended abruptly, rudely, painfully and lingeringly, and she began to lose her faith in men.

What NOT To Hide If You Want To Attract a Great Man

What NOT To Hide If You Want To Attract a Great Man

She is an amazing woman.  She is mid 50’s.  An accomplished therapist and yoga teacher.  Well-read.  Wise.  Funny.  Urbane. Yet when she came to me for a coaching session about her online communication with men, she said that all she was attracting online were mediocre men.  Not the leaders she desired.  Not the strong capable men she was sure was out there in New York.  

How To Get The BEST Men Online To Write You

How To Get The BEST Men Online To Write You

Women say they want a quality man - a man who is self-aware, tender, funny and who will devote their hearts, minds and resources to an enduring love. Here’s the problem… A lot of women, at the same time, decline to take the steps to become the woman who would naturally attract that kind of quality man.   Few have hit this target better than Lori Gottlieb in her sobering book, “Marry Him: The Case for Mr. Good Enough,” when she said that desire has become the new “deserve.” 

Single? 5 Ways To Stay Sane In A World Of Couples [EXPERT]
Are you always a bridesmaid, never a bride?

Single? 5 Ways To Stay Sane In A World Of Couples

I remember being a single girl and receiving an invitation to a wedding, knowing mostly couples would attend. As much as I would look on the positive side and think 'I might meet Mr. Right there' (because that was always in the back of my mind), the reality was that my married friends would all have each other, and I would once again feel like the lonely fifth wheel.

A Plea For Knowledgeable Parenting

A Plea For Knowledgeable Parenting

In conversation with a good friend, he mentioned how relieved he was that his grandson seems to have reached a contented, benevalent place. He and his daughter had been worried about the child's swearing, boasting, bossiness, telling his Mother that he hates her, yelling at people...I asked him how old his grandson was now. He had just turned five. I explained to him that the behavior was normal and on cue. Four and a half is an age of disequilibrium where out of bounds behavior is to be expected, followed at five by a stage of equilibrium and good fellowship.

The 3 Myths That Sabotage Your Quest For Love

The 3 Myths That Sabotage Your Quest For Love

Do you know the biggest mistake that’s keeping you from finding true love? The truth is, you are doing things that may actually be keeping love from you. This is a VERY common mistake that singles make—intelligent, successful, good looking people make—your dream partner can’t find you because you are actually doing things to repel your dreams.   And you don’t even know it!