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Why high powered executive men choose to be submissive in bed

Why high powered executive men choose to be submissive in bed

There is an absolute correlation in men and high powered jobs whom are responsible for being in charge all day that want to let go at night and be taken sexually or at least not  have to be in control. The complete loss of control and submission to a woman in the bedroom, takes the pressure off of the sexual situation and gives the man the ability to relax and enjoy the sexual experience.  This type of submission can take on many different degrees of submissive behavior, depending on the man.  I have worked with men in my practice for many years and some range f

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Abortion Aftercare: An Idea Whose Time Has Come

Women who have had abortions may not feel entitled to grieve the loss of their unborn children. After all, they rationalize, you shouldn't be permitted to grieve over a loss you have chosen to create. And so, putting the missing pieces together can be confusing and overwhelming for them.

How Divorce Affects Children

How Divorce Affects Children

House rules are extremely important and many couples don’t do this, especially in the beginning, because they say it will get resolved if it needs to be.  As soon as a couple thinks they are going to be serious in making their relationship last, before they commit to moving in together or, if they have moved in together, before any long term changes have started, to sit down and have those conversations.  Have conversations about who’s going to discipline the children.  Ideally, it should be the biological parent, especially when talking about pre-te

"Surviving Mother's Day When You've Lost Your Mom"

"Surviving Mother's Day When You've Lost Your Mom"

Mother’s Day is a time to honor and cherish mothers. Whether your relationship with her is nurturing or strained, all mothers have one thing in common, they love their children to the depths of their soul. It is a time to appreciate her effort at loving and raising you. Alas, what if your mom is no longer around? Maybe she has passed on, or refuses to talk with you as an adult. Maybe you are feeling sad and lonely without her. Here are a few tips to get through the day.

Gay Marriage — Come Out, Come Out, Wherever you Are!

Gay Marriage — Come Out, Come Out, Wherever you Are!

Larry Cappel is a trained relationship coach and a licensed marriage and family therapist. He can be reached through his website if you'd like to talk about any aspect of your relationship. Olly olly, oxen free! In the children’s game Hide and Seek, the players stay hidden until found or called to come out of their hiding spots. As adults, if we stay hidden we pay a high price for our invisibility.

How To Quickly And Easily Overcome Your Fears

How To Quickly And Easily Overcome Your Fears

In my work as well as in my personal life I frequently see and understand what a profound role fear plays in all of our lives.  Some might not recognize or call some of their behaviors fearful yet if we dig deep enough that’s almost always what holds us back.  It’s rarely the life threatening fear that gets in our way but rather the seemingly small stuff that holds us hostage from the greatness that we so often desire.  Here are some simple and time-tested ways to overcome your fears, and take your life in a