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Do you see the signs?

10 Relationship Red Flags

"Is it normal that my husand ... ?" Have you ever asked yourself this question and wondered whether or not that thing your partner just said or did was okay? Many of us second-guess ourselves. We worry that we're making a big deal out of nothing. We don't want to start a fight or make things tense, but certain behaviors feel hurtful or seem like huge red flags.

4 Tips for Communicating with your Partner About Sex

4 Tips for Communicating with your Partner About Sex

Communication is by far the most important ‘sexual enhancement’, because when you’re engaged in each other mentally it’s easier to connect sexually. There’s also the fact that your partner can’t read your mind, so helping them out by communicating your sexual needs will just make it that much more likely to get exactly what satisfies you!

Dear Instagram "Models - Why are you selling your vagina?

Dear Instagram "Models - Why are you selling your vagina?

Dear THOSE Young Women: ​ ​I gotta tell you straight. You might be beautiful. You might be built. You might love your body... and that's great. Seriously... I'm happy for you (no sarcasm). In today's fast-food, overindulged, carbohydrate-addicted world, maintaining a hot figure is challenging. However... let's not kid ourselves. You can look in the mirror and feel proud of your body. You can walk down the street and receive looks and compliments on your beauty. That's not the reason you're on Instagram...

6 Reasons Why Having Kids Is GOOD For Your Marriage

6 Reasons Why Having Kids Is GOOD For Your Marriage

Without a doubt, having kids can be stressful, expensive, exhausting and it can put a strain on your relationship. You’re suddenly responsible for the care and upbringing of this precious little person (or little people) and that can feel like a heavy weight that only gets heavier as the years go on. A recent study of 1,630 married couples found that those with children reported lower “marital satisfaction” than those who did not have children.

What women want

What women want

Austrian neurologist and psychologist Sigmund Freud’s famous statement: “The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is ‘What does a woman want?’” If you ask a woman what she wants, her answer will be entirely dependent on highly individualized circumstances: current wants, needs, mental state, age, family situation, hormonal status, and life experience up to the time the question is asked.  

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Can You Get Addicted To Your Vibrator?

"Will I become addicted to my vibrator?" "Once I start using a vibrator, will I be able to climax without it?" "Will using a vibrator make me less sensitive?" These are just a few of the questions that have come up again and again over my ten years as the owner of a successful sex toy business.

How to Find a Date on St. Patrick's Day Online and Offline

How to Find a Date on St. Patrick's Day Online and Offline

Whether you know the history of St. Patrick or not, it’s the perfect time to brush up on your flirting skills to get ready for spring fever. With St. Patrick’s Day on a Sunday, you can start the weekend early by celebrating today. To get into the spirit of St. Patrick’s Day, you don’t need to be Irish. If you practice these  online dating and offline flirting skills, you’ll likely have a date on your calendar before the weekend is over, or will enjoy the time together with the object of your affection.

Normal Childhood Behavior or Signs of a Bigger Problem?

Normal Childhood Behavior or Signs of a Bigger Problem?

Does my child have an attention or behavioral problem?   Parents, teachers, and many health professionals are often at a loss when it comes to identifying and modifying problematic childhood behavior. The nuances of child behavior are just like those of adult behavior.  How does one define what is genuinely problematic and indicative of a larger problem?  When parents and their children are referred to my practice for attention, concentration, behavioral, or underachievement problems, a thorough assessment ensues.  Many parents have tried a multi

Caregivers Need Care Too

Caregivers Need Care Too

I often meet with individuals who desperately need time for themselves.  Many of these individuals are professionals such as doctors, teachers, or daycare providers.  Others are full time parents or are caring for their own ailing parents.  Some are in a relationship with, or care for someone with mental or physical illness.  While the presentation is diverse, there is a common theme.  A theme of burnout, stress, and intense guilt related to wanting some “me time”.  Friendships, interests, and ho

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Ever wonder how a couple like this ends up together?

Why Mismatched Couples End Up Together

Have you ever wondered why some great men date women who seem ... beneath them, while other guys date women who are way out of their leagues? It makes no sense! Still, you see these types of couples all the time.