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Attention Women: Why A Good Lover Will Finish Last

Attention Women: Why A Good Lover Will Finish Last

My intention here is to give you something that makes sense for you, that helps you understand some things you may not have understood before, and that as result, helps your relationship and love-making become more exciting, fun, and lasting. Men are driven visually more than women, not that women aren't driven my visual cues as well, but your drive has an emotional component to it that arrives later for men.  Men are also sexually aroused more quickly than women, and unless they are good at controlling their arousal, they can reach orgasm long before you, and some may even think that that is the end of the sex or love-making session.  If that is your experience, you have likely felt some degree of frustration if not anger, even resentment.  That is clearly a breakup waiting to happen.

Happy  Anniversary Viagra.  But You Still Can't Fix Everything!

Happy Anniversary Viagra. But You Still Can't Fix Everything!

by Aline P. Zoldbrod Ph.D.   (EXPERT)   March 2013 is the fifteeth anniversary of Viagra becoming available  (on the 27th of March, to be exact).  In a lot of ways, Viagra’s invention merits a celebration. Erectile dysfunction is  quite common--more common as men age,  but  not rare in younger men.  Men with  E.D. are miserable. If they are married, they are insecure and defensive, avoid sex, get depressed; sometimes their feelings come out as anger toward their partner.

Guys: 7 Oral Sex Tips That Will Rock Her World

Guys: 7 Oral Sex Tips That Will Rock Her World

Recently, a friend posed a question: what would you do if your lover refused to go down? I posed the question to my customers and the results were interesting: – 10% swore they would leave – 30% would wonder if something was wrong with them or their partner – 47% would try to get to the root of the problem by discussing it directly Only about 13% said they could live without it.

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Discrimination can end with you.

How To Raise 'Colorblind' Kids In A Racist World

Kids notice differences in other people. They are not "colorblind" as some adults like to pretend, and thank God, since all of our many differences are such an important part of our individual and cultural identities. And while it's perfectly natural for kids to notices racial differences, they do not naturally judge one set of characteristics as superior or preferred, until some adult teaches them to prefer certain characteristics.

4 Reasons to Date a Failure

4 Reasons to Date a Failure

Fourteen years ago when I met my husband, we were both failures. Relationship failures, that is. He was divorced twice and so was I. We were in our early forties, fearful of making another mistake, yet still hopeful that maybe this relationship would be the right one. We both had a healthy dose of skepticism, but we forged ahead. Good thing we did because meeting him has definitely turned out to be the best thing that has ever happened to me!

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Would you know a cheater if you saw one?

How To Identify A Cheater

Let's face it, men cheat! Well, some of them do. And according to the numerous studies available, it's more than a handful. In fact, according to some recent studies approximately 60% of men will cheat on their spouses.

One Small Story of a Mother's Unreasonable Love

One Small Story of a Mother's Unreasonable Love

On the last night of our epic three week family vacation we all lay on our backs on a dock on Cascade Lake, Orcas Island to watch a rare meteor shower.  I wish I had a picture of us – side by side in the dark - gazing across an expanse of sky trying to capture every stray streak to launch itself in our direction.  Then a chorus of a gasps would ring out. OOOhhhh, aaawwweee …  

How To Talk To Your Gay Teen About Sex

How To Talk To Your Gay Teen About Sex

Invincible, proud, determined, excited and waving the rainbow flag. That's often the stereotypical view of a teen that comes out of the closet. On the other hand, they also often feel isolated, afraid, broken and not quite capable of fitting in. Regardless of the perspective, there can be one small, yet very large perception that get's overlooked and leads teens into sexual hot water!