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5 Tips On How To Deal With Your OCD

5 Tips On How To Deal With Your OCD

It can be difficult for people who have OCD deal with their negative thoughts. Here are 5 tips that a person can use to help manage their fearful and obsessive thoughts and anxieties. 1. Do  not to dwell or focus on the fear provoking thought when it comes. The more a person tries to reason out the thought or focus on the fear behind the thought, the stronger the thought becomes. The next time you encounter an obsessive thought, get into the practice of not dwelling on it.

5 Tips On To Help A Friend Who Is Being Abused

5 Tips On To Help A Friend Who Is Being Abused

It can be tough when someone you know is in  an abusive relationship. Here are five suggestions on how you can help a loved one deal with domestic violence. 1.Get the facts of the current situation Talk to your loved one to get the facts of their current relationship. The key is to focus on what is reality and what is not.  Do not focus on gossip or what other people think. It is important to know what is really going on in a particular relationship.  

How Men Can Deal With Their Depression

How Men Can Deal With Their Depression

Some men have a difficult time in managing their depression.  Sometimes, their depression and fears can get the best of them.  As a result, here is a short list of techniques that a man can use to help manage their depression. One of the ways to manage your depression is to challenge your negative thinking with positive statements and realistic thinking.

Some Tips On How To Manage The Fear Of The Future

Some Tips On How To Manage The Fear Of The Future

Many people worry about what will happen to them in the future. This can cause a lot of fear and anxiety for the person.  As a result, here is a list of techniques and suggestions on how to manage this fear of dealing with the future.   1.Can’t predict the future with one hundred percent certainty.

Don't Take ANYTHING Personally

Don't Take ANYTHING Personally

Don't take ANYTHING at all personally.  This can be difficult advice to swallow.  Sure, when a complete stranger cuts you off in traffic while making rude hand gestures at you, it's pretty easy not to take it on. Most of us can chock a moment like that up to another person's bad day (or bad life) that has nothing whatsoever to do with us.  But, there are countless other occasions when it's far more difficult not to take personally what someone else says or does. 

WHERE IS LOVE?

WHERE IS LOVE?

Probably the most prevalent question I’m asked in my counseling practice is “Where is love?” Clients want to know why they can’t find a successful life partnership, why a friend or family member won’t respond as they would like, even why they don’t love themselves. In a perfect world, love wouldn’t be something we have to learn—if you believe in a loving cosmos, then we were all conceived in Love, and it’s Love that created us.

Online Dating Tips for Single Men

Online Dating Tips for Single Men

Why are there are a lot of interested women in online dating? Honestly, it is because there are many single men who are interested. If the interest is just one way, those online dating sites will not prosper. It is not something that men would normally blatantly broadcast, but a lot are getting the motivation because of many successful hookups.

Attract a Quality Person By Being a Quality Single

Attract a Quality Person By Being a Quality Single

Stereotypes of singles and those using online dating services are abound, but the reality is that many quality people are looking for love in cyberspace. How do you find one of these people? By becoming one yourself, of course! Relationship scholars know that shared characteristics are key to attraction, so if you want to find a well-adjusted, healthy, optimistic partner, you’ll want to develop those characteristics in yourself. Your grandmother was right: Misery attracts misery and happy attracts happy.