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The #1 Way To Inspire His Devotion (Plus 3 Common Mistakes)

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How to inspire his total devotion. Plus, three common mistakes women make that push men away.

In order to inspire his total devotion, you need to stop using all the wrong ways that most women think work to get love, but really just push men away. These ways prevent men from connecting with you - deeply and emotionally - so your relationships are only temporary or never happen at all. All they ever lead to are a buddy, a "player" or a man just "passing through" on his way to the "real" love of his life. And you need to stop taking them... right now!... if you want to inspire his affection and commitment.

Why People Cheat

Why People Cheat

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6 reasons people cheat and 3 ways to heal from being cheated on.

     Brace yourselves: another celebrity has admitted to having an affair. Arnold Schwarzenegger has admitted that he fathered a child with a household staffer while he and Maria Shriver were married. It happened ten years ago but was revealed this year. Maria moved out immediately, and now they’re planning to divorce.

Let’s Face It: Why You Can’t read Him But You can Read Her

Let’s Face It: Why You Can’t read Him But You can Read Her

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Why is the face so important?

Why is the face so important? Of course we communicate from the neck down, but the majority of meaning and the richest source of nonverbal data come from the face. Our visage provides the most information about how we feel, and our body movements indicate the intensity of the emotion. According to anthropologist Ray Birdwhistell, human beings are capable of making 250,000 facial expressions without uttering a word.  

Are You a Closet Quitter?

Are You a Closet Quitter?

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Breaking the Pattern & Your Silence

Who knew I was a quitter?!  Certainly, not me.  I have tons of evidence that would say otherwise.  But I know myself.  For years, even though I achieved a lot in many different areas of my life, I could shake the nagging feeling I was never fully living up to my potential. 

A Guy’s Guide To Thrilling Your Woman

A Guy’s Guide To Thrilling Your Woman

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Tips I've learned from living with a pro.

Tips I've learned from living with a pro. Okay, I admit it. That teaser was a bit misleading. I don’t live with that kind of pro. I’m the life partner of an award-winning sex teacher and medical professional, Sheri Winston. Still, a pro’s a pro when it comes to expertise about sex.

Arnold Schwarzenegger's Infidelity - How Resilient are You?

Arnold Schwarzenegger's Infidelity - How Resilient are You?

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At Mars Venus Coaching we talk a lot about relationships and relationships challenges. With the recent news of infidelity in yet another high profile man in our society we start to ask ourselves, what makes me different? How can you use what happened to Maria Shriver and Arnold Schwarzenegger’s marriage work to your advantage? For some reason we gravitate to reading about other people’s tragedies. Why is this?

Does The Mind-Body Connection Really Exist?

Does The Mind-Body Connection Really Exist?

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IS there a mind-body connection and if there is can a person use that connection in finding love?

Now, before I go into my thoughts & feelings about the mind-body connection and whether it does exist. I’ll simply say I am not a neuro-scientist and it is not my area of expertise. But I’m also not an electrician. But I do know that if I turn on the switch in my living room, the lights mysteriously go on. Do I care why the lights go on...NO! I don’t care about why something happens, I simply care that it does.

Are You A Catch?

Are You A Catch?

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10 Golden Qualities For Modern Day Love

What is it exactly that makes a couple click? And what are the qualities that keep them happily joined long after the first flush of love fades? Here are 10 qualities to look for in your own modern-day prince or princess. If you both possess these 10 traits, together you just may have your own happily ever after.

Sexy After 50…for Women Only

Sexy After 50…for Women Only

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What makes women over 50 sexy? Confidence, grace, and much more!

What makes women over 50 sexy? Confidence, grace, and much more! When we see young people who marry too soon we often say, “As long as they are happy.” But these are the words I heard recently from Sally who had just returned from her mother’s wedding. “As long as she is happy” she muttered with embarrassment. You see, her mom is 83!